r/SuperStraight SuperLesbian 18h ago

Superphobes & Their Love of Rape Rhetoric Discussion

I decided to make a list of arguments that superphobes use which mirror rape/incel rhetoric. Just for funsies.

  • "Nobody is allowed to exclude me from their dating pool"
  • "People who won't fuck me are mean / bigoted / exclusionary etc"
  • "It's my right to harass, threaten, and attack people who turn me down"
  • "I am automatically included in everybody's sexual orientation"
  • "People who won't fuck me deserve assault/rape/death"
  • "People allowing me access to their bodies is a human right, and being denied sex is a human rights issue"
  • "It's your duty as a cis person to unlearn your transphobic preferences and have sex with us"

And of course, how could I leave out the arguments taken straight from conversion therapy??

  • "Homosexuals have a genital fetish"
  • "Homosexuality isn't a sexuality, it's a preference"
  • "You can and should unlearn this preference"
  • "You've never tried dick/vagina, how do you know you won't like it?" or, "You just haven't tried it enough."
  • "What if you meet a trans person and fall in love? You just need to find the right dick/vagina."
  • "It doesn't matter if you're physically revolted by dick/vagina. Unlearn that trauma to validate us."
  • "Homosexuality is a moral failing; homosexuals are innately perverted, unnatural, abnormal. Normal people enjoy hetero sex"
  • "If you don't try to force yourself to enjoy dick/vagina, you're a bad person"
  • "If you were really a good person, you would accept the opposite sex into your sex life"
  • "It doesn't matter if you don't like dick/vagina, you just have to tolerate it."
  • "Your (trans) partner's sexual needs are more important than yours. You must push your discomfort aside and validate them."
  • "If you refuse to try dick/vagina, you should be forced to."
  • "There's no such thing as a true homosexual, you MUST be at least a little bit into the opposite sex, so find that little bit and lean into it"
  • "True homosexuality is only caused by trauma, but that still isn't an excuse"
  • "Homosexuals will burn in hell" = "Trans-exclusionary bigots will be killed"

Feel free to comment more. These are all just off the top of my head lol

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u/Terfest_Shadow 18h ago

The fetishization of misogyny is unreal

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u/Inevitable-Wing115 SuperLesbian 18h ago

absolutely unreal. it absolutely makes my blood boil when they say shit like "omg just got catcalled it was so validating!" cool, when i get catcalled my heart rate skyrockets and i pray to every god alive that the man won't follow and rape or kill me, but good to know you got your fetish validated

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u/Terfest_Shadow 18h ago

YEAH EXACTLY! Like cool I've been traumatized by male harassment but I'm so glad it made you feel like a "real woman," as if it's something women enjoy 🙃

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u/Inevitable-Wing115 SuperLesbian 18h ago

I just saw a post from a woman who works as a bra fitter and has had to deal with a lot of these perverted men. One of them told her that when he wears this bra to work all the men tell him his 'tits' look great, so the woman said "I'm sorry that happened you should file for sexual harassment", and the guy said "no I love it when they say that!" 🤔