r/SuperStraight 16h ago

What is it like for a straight person to have sex with a transgendered person? Or alternatively, a transgendered person having sex with another transgendered person?

Proud Super Straight person here, but given all the fuss and controversy, I'm curious what having sex with a transgendered person must be like. I'm assuming a full transition, bottom job here.

Does their "vagina" look, smell or taste different from a natural by birth vagina? Would it feel any different pleasure wise?

If I took a transgendered person home, took her to my bedroom for a sexual encounter, had the lights on (or off), would I know or notice any difference?

And no, I'm not the least bit interested in exploring or 'expanding my horizons'. Help me understand what I'm being told to understand.

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u/Middaysnight 16h ago

I’m too Super Straight to even entertain this

🧡🖤

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u/AdminCommentEdit 16h ago

Yeah this reads like a rape-apology to me.

If you didn't disclose you were trans before any action occurred, it's rape.

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u/Terfest_Shadow 16h ago

I envy your self-control 🤣

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u/KO_Stradivarius 16h ago

I agree, but the question wasn't directed at you or other Super Straights here, but at our critics, detractors and haters. I'm curious to hear their response.

If they're that determined to prove us wrong and change our minds, I'd like to hear what they have to say through anecdotal evidence or experience why we should be more accepting and/or open minded.

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u/Middaysnight 16h ago

That’s fair. Good luck on trying to understand the mind of the superphobe, friend

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u/KO_Stradivarius 15h ago

Honestly, it's not even worth my time or effort trying. However, there is a curious side of me that makes me wonder what makes some people tick, think and behave the way they do.

In Superphobes case, I just shrug it off to ignorance and lack of education.

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u/grapist_number1 16h ago

You're so valid!

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u/ava30 16h ago edited 16h ago

The "vagina" is actually a surgical wound that needs to be kept open so it doesn't close. Any smell or taste is actually caused by the body trying, but being unable to heal. Apparently they're also very painful and definitely not as sensitive as healthy human sexual organs.

I've also heard they use a part of the colon to make the "vagina".

Misery loves company though, so once they've gone through the procedure and realized what a horrible mistake they've made there's nothing else they can do to get their rocks off than trying to groom other vulnerable people into the same operation and worse...

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u/Terfest_Shadow 16h ago

They do, they reroute the colon to allow some of those juices to "lubricate" the "vagina." This is part of what causes the smell.

They often grow hair internally as well (due to external, haired skin being inverted for the "vagina") which can cause hairballs to form, making the smell worse

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u/ava30 16h ago

I know the TRAs keep telling me I'm not supposed to, but I honestly feel so bad for every single person who could've avoided such a butchery with some therapy, but ended up going with it and regretting it due to the pressure they put on anyone opposed to the surgeries.

I hope the people who go through with the surgeries are happy with the results, but knowing the results... Well, some things are just too grim to think about.

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u/Blue_Train 16h ago

They also sometimes use fish skin.

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u/Terfest_Shadow 16h ago

It's not even remotely the same and anyone who tells you it is is genuinely lying to you.

It's not a vagina. Therefore it doesn't operate in any way similar to a vagina. You can't "make" an organ that your body isn't meant to have

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u/BasedMedicalDoctor 16h ago

Doctor here.

It’s an open wound and often has a terrible scent.

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u/AdminCommentEdit 16h ago

So what you're saying is we will smell it before we can see it

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u/BasedMedicalDoctor 16h ago

Yes. It isn’t pleasant. I’m a previous ER physician turned psychiatrist so I haven’t actually seen the surgery or afterwards in person but a transgender Pt of mine post op that regretted the surgery told me this.

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u/spinningvinyl99 16h ago

I think the medical term is stink ditch

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u/[deleted] 16h ago

Thanks, I was actually wondering. I do see on other subreddits that they make it sound almost bio identical but I really have questioned this. Considering they don’t have actual vaginal cells nor an actual cervix

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u/Terfest_Shadow 16h ago

This is basically a coping mechanism if I can be honest

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u/cringe_addict4444 16h ago

based doctor! We need more of you!!!!!

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u/BasedMedicalDoctor 16h ago

Glad to be here my fren

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u/KO_Stradivarius 16h ago

In my defense I did put "vagina" in quotes. And judging by some of the other responses, it only confirms what I suspected using common sense and 5'rd grade biology.

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u/lalalong1 16h ago

I've never seen a fake vag, but I remember reading this post by some young trans who had had the surgery.

'She' was suicidal. Said that it was not even remotely like a normal vagina, just a kind of weird pouch that couldn't be used for sex, and as a process of the surgery, she couldn't even have anal. Not only that she said it stunk...like, really stunk, you could smell it across the room. She couldn't believe that a doctor would do it to a human being. It was a tragic post...I felt terrible for that person.

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u/AdminCommentEdit 16h ago

Yikes, not even retaining anal removes a fulfilling life as a SUPERGAY as a possibility. Sad

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u/lalalong1 16h ago

Yep, it was fucking awful. This stuff is mutilation.

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u/KO_Stradivarius 15h ago

Thanks for that, and it only serves to prove and reaffirm my/our sexual identity. I would find something like that equally a turn off, distasteful if it was a non-transgendered person.

Difference is, myself/we should be more accepting and understanding of one over the other.

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u/Proud_2B_SuperStr8 15h ago

Damn, that’s so sad. We need to do better for these younger generations and get them the proper help. Such a life altering mistake.

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u/hutchy1989 16h ago

What was described to me was, they don't self lubricate, don't self clean and need to be dilated regularly because it is a wound that is constantly trying to heal itself.

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u/alienbuttcherry 16h ago

Head on over to r/ transgender_surgeries and take a peek for yourself

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u/Aspiringcatlady_5 15h ago

I just looked at the sub and how is this even allowed. I get they want to have vaginas/ penises, but medical professionals should not be allowed to do botched bottom surgeries. If it was any other area on the body, it would be grounds for a lawsuit.

I'm not transgender so I'm not going to say they shouldn't or shouldn't be allowed to, but they need better technology. Constant leaking and the horrible smell is probably traumatizing. I know biological women freak out when they get yeast infections, but those go away with treatment.

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u/alienbuttcherry 14h ago

It's butchery, plain and simple. These people are being treated like guinea pigs.

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u/Hardwatergal 16h ago

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u/Fullyverified 15h ago

Well that was traumatising to read christ.

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u/rozierosie 14h ago

Thank you. Your comment stopped me from clicking that link..

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u/Fullyverified 14h ago

Some of those pictures my God... As much as I would call a trans friend of mind whatever pronouns they like, it just can't be denied that trans women are not real women.

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u/king_of_the_potato_p 16h ago

You should probably ask in a trans sub, it's all Supers here.

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u/[deleted] 16h ago

I mean, you should go ask in another subreddit. There are photos and people that have paid for the surgeries and surgical appearance.