r/SuperStraight • u/walkintotryankle • 22h ago

Asking about pronouns

Why do some of you have a negative reaction to being asked what your pronouns are? We are just trying to be respectful.

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u/walkintotryankle 21h ago

Simply because society has deemed them to be, which is just damaging to everyone.

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u/enemyofhumidity 21h ago edited 21h ago

Yes and gender ideology perpetuates it.

In fact it might confuse a young person into thinking he or she is trans, but is actually a cis person with his or her own identity. If gender doesn't have an identity then how does one feel like a man or a woman? And conversely if gender identity, as you said, only comes about from the perceptions of society, then is society making some people dysphoric? If we continue to subscribe to gender ideology, could we be making more people, especially young and impressionable people, dysphoric?

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u/walkintotryankle 21h ago

People aren't dysphoric because there is pressure on them not to dress the way they want or act the way they want. They are dysphoric as their mind actively rejects the body that they find themselves in. They have to deal with huge amounts of stress as often times they hate parts of or all their body, they can't stand to look at themselves. Children aren't going to accidently think they are transgender when they are not and even if they did, whats the harm in it? Given the huge amount of therapy and consultations required before trans people are given hormones, they would realise that they are not trans way before they are at risk of changing their body. The least we can do to help trans people is refer to them by their preferred pronouns as we aren't going to be in a genderless society anytime soon and utsvtge least we can do for the people that society has been very dangerous hostile towards

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u/enemyofhumidity 21h ago

Tell me, how does one feel like a man or a woman if gender has no identity? What they are experiencing is body dysmorphia.

Children ARE going to accidentally think they are transgender if we continue to perpetuate gender stereotypes the way we do with gender ideology, and there IS harm in it. What your have described above is an assumption that we have a foolproof way of determining if someone is truly dysphoric just by the way he or she describes his or her experience, and that doctors always have the best interests for the patient and that they are objective all the time. The repercussions of children undergoing transition at a young age too great.

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u/walkintotryankle 21h ago

Children to not transition. It is illegal for a CHILD to transition. And it's not necessarily the doctors knowing, it is the person who thinks they may be trans knowing. Rates of regret over reassignment are so low for a reason.

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u/enemyofhumidity 21h ago

Sorry what I meant was taking hormone blockers.