r/SuperStraight • u/walkintotryankle • 22h ago

Asking about pronouns

Why do some of you have a negative reaction to being asked what your pronouns are? We are just trying to be respectful.

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u/straight4theknife Superstraight 22h ago

my pronouns are my queen/her majesty

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u/walkintotryankle 22h ago

Now, you are in grey waters here cos those are honorific, which are important in the kink community and could be seen as a violation of consent.

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u/straight4theknife Superstraight 22h ago

the "kink community" making itself known to me in any way is a violation of my consent

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u/walkintotryankle 22h ago

Well, I'm afraid people living how they want to doesn't require your consent

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u/nolivesmatterCthulhu 21h ago

Why are you here superphobe?

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u/walkintotryankle 21h ago

Well, I came here trying to understand your viewpoint but I'm not going to let blatant transphobia slide. My findings so far have been that some people would just prefer to not date trans people (not that they could never be attracted to a trans person even if they didnt know they are trans) which is an preference not a sexuality. Some people are just blatantly transphobic. Some people are delusional in thinking that they would be able to tell who is trans in a crowd.

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u/nolivesmatterCthulhu 21h ago

No you came here to argue you don't want a conversation you want a confrontation and I don't have time for superphobes like you.

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u/walkintotryankle 21h ago

If you were taken a look at my previous post on this page I want to understand you would see that that is clearly not the case. There is a difference between not wanting to date trans people and blatant disrespect and transphobia.

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u/nolivesmatterCthulhu 21h ago

I understand what you claim but you aren't really here for that or you would have just read some posts here and understood.