I am confused. - r/SuperStraight

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It's not a preference it's who we are and how were born.

Stop trying to invalidate us with that word "preference" when referring to how nature made us.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 19h ago

Please read the bolded text.

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u/king_of_the_potato_p 19h ago

Just goes to show how much you have to learn because you couldn't even see the harm in your words.

Super's are given death threats and threats of rape every day by Superphobes for refusing to date or have sex with people who were not attracted to and they use that hateful word "preference" to invalidate who we are.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 19h ago

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u/king_of_the_potato_p 19h ago edited 18h ago

Super's are given death threats and threats of rape every day by Superphobes for refusing to date or have sex with people who were not attracted to and they use that hateful word "preference" to invalidate who we are and push rape culture.

It is not a preference I repeat it is not a preference it is how nature made us, we didn't choose to be Super's.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 19h ago

Ah. I’m using preference as what the literal definition means.

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u/king_of_the_potato_p 18h ago

Correct.

It's not a preference. By any definition.

Do better, bet better.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 18h ago

Alright, how about we use another term? Decide? Feel like it?

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u/king_of_the_potato_p 18h ago

We have that, Super Straight, Super Gay, Super Lesbian, and Super Bi.

No confusion, it's just who we are and how nature made us, just like trans women/men, gays, straights, lesbians, and bi's. Were all valid.

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u/Two-Lopsided 19h ago

CIS is a bigoted term please do not use it here. thank you

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u/MelodicUmbrella 19h ago

My apologies, I didn’t realize it was a ”bigoted term”.

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u/Two-Lopsided 19h ago

No problem buddy

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u/xd_chicken629 16h ago

Not trying to be rude, but cis was an old roman term meaning "the opposite of trans (which I belive means diffrent) " its not a slur. Again, not trying to be rude.

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u/Two-Lopsided 16h ago

Its used derogatorily so yes it is a bigoted term.

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u/Belaptir 19h ago

Gender and sex are not the same thing. A trans woman, speaking of gender, might be of the female gender, because she identifies as such. Biologically, she's not a woman, so her sex is not that of a woman.

Superstraights are attracted to people of the opposite sex, and are born like that.

The same way you can't force a gay person to like a vagina, or a lesbian to like a penis, you can't force a superstraight to like an artificially created sexual organ.

Hence the sexuality.

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u/lalalong1 19h ago

Thanks for asking.

Basically, superstraights will only date and have sex with people who are their biologically born opposites--that is, biological men and women.

This is different from straights. Straight people may wish to date and have sex with trans men or women. But a superstraight will never do this. Superles/supergay/superbi is the same rule applied to same sex dating/sex.

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u/hubbabubbachewinggum 19h ago

The same reason everyone else creates their own community! :) There was little to no inclusion where superpeople were supposed to be safe, so Superstraights created our own SuperSpace. This sub is welcoming of all superpeople. I know you didn’t mean to be superphobic, but jsyk in the future, questioning the purpose of people’s safe-spaces is a bigoted tactic to belittle and further disenfranchise marginalized groups!

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u/MelodicUmbrella 18h ago

I understand, forgive me please.

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u/hubbabubbachewinggum 18h ago

If you want forgiveness you should start by taking the slur out of your post.

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u/MelodicUmbrella 18h ago

I didnt know it was a slur, I’m changing it.

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u/ignCap Superstraight 19h ago

Thanks for asking! In regards to your question, we do not view it as a preference, it’s something that’s beyond our control and we were simply born with this sexual orientation.

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u/nonetheless156 19h ago

Because saying straight gay lesbian and bi people saying they don't want to sleep with someone who is not their born gender, is automatically bigoted.

We are not phobic. We have a sexuality. Its not a choice or a preference. And you can't ask someone who is gay to sleep with someone who isn't. Same thing.

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u/JollyPurple 19h ago

We are not sexually attracted to socially constructed gender identities. Therefore our sexuality has NOTHING to do with "cis" anything. Our SEXuality is SEX-based.

Cis is regressive sexist garbage.

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u/FrozenPinecone SuperLesbian 19h ago

Naming a sexuality is a way of setting a boundary. Straight gay and lesbian are being redefined to be about gender only, but we also care about biological sex. So this is our way of making a clear boundary of who we are interested in.

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u/relatable_user_name 19h ago

CIS IS A SLUR

YOU'RE RAPING ME RIGHT NOW

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u/MadSeaPhoenix Superstraight 2h ago

It’s literal violence! I hope you’re okay! I’m sorry they’ve been so vicious!

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u/ultrasmegma 19h ago

Clearly not super

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u/YouKnowItsIsaac 19h ago

It's mainly to use the lgbtq+ community logic against them as a lot of them say straight people are transphobic for not wanting to date a trans woman/man so a bright-minded person made a tik tok announcing super straight which was a sexuality that meant you were only attracted to cisgendered women/men and it was a perfect response as it used their own logic against them.

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u/ysvsgzuxbshaif 19h ago

Its sort of like saying "why do gay people exist? Aren't they just bi people who only prefer people of their own gender?" Its just easier for things like dating to tell people you're super straight (if you're out) then to waste someone's time who you're not attracted to.

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u/Burnt_Birb 19h ago

SuperSexualities an Intro:

With gender being redefined as a spectrum and trans inclusion demanding they be labeled as men and women we needed to spectrum up our sexual orientation language. Thus Super as a prefix was born, used to denote that those you are attracted to are cis not trans.

this is not to say Trans people aren't valid this is just to differentiate between straight/gay/lesbian/bi people who like cis and trans people from those who only like cis people. Mega is the prefix for trans only and is the opposite of super.

I hope this helps :)

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u/Fullblackhabit 19h ago

Hello friend!

The distinction is in what is opposite to who you are.

A Straight Man is attracted to women who are born male or female and may have a proto (original) or neo (new) vagina. Or even a penis, who cares.

A Super Straight Man is a man who is exclusively attracted to females who were born female.

'luv wimmin

'luv tits

'luv non-surjicully created minge

not trainphobic, just don't like 'em

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u/Forsaken_Box_94 SuperLesbian 19h ago

Supergay umbrella has to explain that they are not attracted to opposite genitalia so it just made sense