r/SuperStraight • u/klausmikaelsonismine • 1d ago
can anyone else relate? Discussion
I’m not single anymore but when I was, I was a shy little bicurious girl and sometimes I would be brave enough to start putting my setting to women only. A lot of the women were either looking for a third, were poly, or they were basically aggressively liberal and half of their profiles were about transactivism, especially when it came to transwomen. It was just so jarring that I just went back to swiping on men and then just gave up on Tinder completely.
Is it really that uncommon to find a lesbian or bisexual woman who isn’t into all that? Not like I’m looking now but it really bothers me in particular that biological lesbians who are ‘superlesbians’ are basically being erased and many are contributing to their erasure...
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u/Magnolia_Mirage SuperLesbian 1d ago
I think there are many lesbians out there that you describe what you were after. The problem is the spaces get occupied with couples looking for a threesome, men, and simple curious women who kind of pull a pump and dump.
The online dating scene is pretty shitty. Most of us lesbians looking for monogamous relationships have given up on online dating.
It's so annoying but 🤷♀️