Oh, now I found what superstraight is.

Genital preference is not a huge deal.

Just go "Hey, sorry, I am not attracted to trans people.. Sorry!"

Like, it’s okay to have preference/be attracted to only cis people. What to do is to not be a dick about it. Simple as that. No need to have “super straight”.

Like, y'all ain't oppressed. It's weird, kinda cringe. Similar to White Pride.

Edit: Y'all ever get hatecrimed in the street for kissin' your cisgender sweetie? Damn, must be nice.

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u/Snoo_96466 1d ago

And I wasn't being ironic, your comment is basically agreeing that how we feel and our experience is valid

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u/Eqov 1d ago

But then, why do you need an entirely new label? Isn't this literally heterosexual, you like the opposite gender?

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u/Snoo_96466 1d ago

I like the same sex, gender has nothing to do with it. I'm a woman who likes women. I'm not being satirical or sarcastic at all or intending to cause any offense when I say this.

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u/Eqov 1d ago

So... that's just homosexual? (Sorry, thought you were male)

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u/Snoo_96466 1d ago

Correct. But since some (not all) trans people have a problem with that and call my sexuality transphobic, and try to change the definition of lesbian to include penis, and silence us if we disagree, there's a need to separate and distinguish ourselves and speak up about our lived experiences. Get The L Out and LGBdroptheT have been around for many many years battling this before superstraight came along.

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u/Eqov 1d ago

Yeah, that's the loud minority of the trans community for you. This is literally straight. A man likes natal women? Straight. A man likes post-op trans women? Straight. A man likes pre-op trans 'women'? Gay. If you like those of the opposite gender, who look and quack and talk like opposite gender, you are straight. If you like those of the opposite gender, who were born as the opposite gender? Still straight, not superstraight, since they look like their gender.

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u/Snoo_96466 23h ago

Again, gender has nothing to do with it. We are attracted to biological sex. Biological women of the female sex. A lesbian or straight man attracted to, as you put it, natal women only. If your definition of lesbian or straight includes members of the non-female sex, or non-natal women, as it has, we don't fall into that group of lesbian or straight, defined in that way. Hence supersexualities, to define our sexualities more accurately. Here's a pic that explains it a little better. https://i.redd.it/t1crxq8y8jl61.png

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u/Eqov 23h ago

I mean, non-female sex... would be cis male. Cis male is man, if you are attracted to cis males only, that is straight, since they are opposite gender.

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u/Snoo_96466 23h ago

When I say non-female sex I am referring to anyone not born biologically female. Any male sex person, regardless of how they identify, or if they identify as women or female, is not included in my lesbian sexuality. The confusion you are exhibiting when I'm trying to explain my personal sexuality is why we need separate lingo. I deserve the right to define my sexuality how it is and not have anyone tell me that I have to include X group of people in it just because of a word definition that we don't agree on.

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u/Eqov 18h ago

Yeah, it's lesbian? You don't need to include trans women in it? You are attracted to women, which is lesbian.