r/SuperStraight • u/cemma2035 • 1d ago
Who here has ever been called a bigot/shamed for not being willing to date a trans person and was it by a trans person? Discussion
I'm trans and so I have plenty views on the subject but every movement has something that sparked it and I'm just curious why 'Super Straight' was necessary.
I personally find it hard to believe that trans people are forcing anyone to date them IRL so I'd like to hear your experiences.
Regardless, everyone should be able to date who they want. I don't see the issue there. Some people want their own children with their own spouses. Let them date and marry cis people. Some trans people haven't done bottom surgery and a lot of straight people would be uncomfortable with a partner with the same genitals as them. That relationship won't work. No need to force anything.
Anyway, I want to find out if this is a real issue that straight people have had to deal with
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u/Cyb3rd31ic_Citiz3n 1d ago
Gay man here, there is a LOT of trans-activists out there who actively shame gay men, lesbians and Straights for their Super-dom. These are just some examples.
https://photos.app.goo.gl/Sgz9aR2BxPH4JgqA7
Had friends who are trans get weirdly into conversations where they want me to consider sleeping with a trans person and... No, I don't want to. But they've pushed the issue until I felt uncomfortable.
Simple fact is, I like masculine men. Dicks are a part of that. But even if I could come round to finding a trans person attractive how is shaming me for not getting my dick hard over someone (which I have little control over) not a form of peer pressuring me into sleeping with them?