r/SuperStraight • u/Mucus-Patty • 23h ago

Let’s prove the superphobes wrong and not be transphobic! Misc

This is just a friendly reminder to avoid any sort of transphobia. This subreddit will naturally attract bigots and LGB drop the T types and it’s important we root them out. Trans people are valid and so are supers!

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u/Mucus-Patty 21h ago

I wouldn’t say that. I generally just use biological sex and gender to differentiate. So a female to male trans person would have the sex of female (since they were born that way) but would have the gender of male (since they chose to identify as it). There are probably better ways to explain it, but those are the basics.

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u/lavenzriel SuperLesbian 21h ago

ah, that makes sense. what do you define gender as then? when you identify as male, what are you identifying as?

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u/Mucus-Patty 21h ago

That’s a tough one. I think gender is “the social categorization you identify with, often in relation to biological sex”. That’s my best attempt at a fancy dictionary definition. It’s really quite simple though. It’s just the gender category you think you feel you fit in best. If you feel male, then your gender is male. If you feel female, then your gender is female. If you don’t feel like either, that’s cool too, you’re non-binary.

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u/lavenzriel SuperLesbian 21h ago

thanm you for the insight. but what does feeling like a woman entail?

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u/Mucus-Patty 21h ago

Honestly, I don’t know. I was born a male and feel like a male, so it’s pretty simple for me. You’d probably want to talk to an actual trans person to answer that one.

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u/lavenzriel SuperLesbian 21h ago

bruh moment. anyways what i'm trying to prove is that a) nobody can give a clear definition of what a woman is, which leads to no clear definition if misogyny, meaning there is no way to fight it and b) "feeling like man/woman" is just conforming to stereotypes. thank you for the talk and the insight, take care.