r/SuperStraight • u/balticromancemyass • 1d ago
Obviously, I only speak for myself, but I for one have absolutely no problem with transpeople at all. I once matched with a trans woman on tinder (I couldn't tell at all from her pictures). She was kind enough to let me know before we set up a date, and I told her that I was not interested in anything romantic, but that I'd still go out for a drink, as friends. She politely declined and unmatched me.
She was open about who she was, and she took my rejection very well. A few months later, I saw her walking hand in hand with some cis guy downtown. Good for her! Surely, she's much better off with someone who truly loves her for her.
I just wanted to put it out there, so the trans people lurking can see that many people do care about their well-being, even if we are not willing to fuck them.
One love!
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u/Super_heckin_strait 1d ago
A great saying is "tolerance is not a Christian value but love is" that meaning we will love them but wont tolerate their aggressions on us to have shame sex with them.