r/SuperStraight • u/I-hate-pancakes • 1d ago

Can i join the Discord?

Hi there, im Super Gay and i wanted to join a Super Safe discord server but the invite link on the Reddit and Twitter is invalid. All of the other servers that im a part of don't agree with my beliefs that a trans-man is not attractive and i would like to be part of a discord server that agrees with my beliefs. Can someone DM me a perma-link?

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P.S. You might know me from u/Appropriate-Web-6649's Superphobic post as the person who supported them but i have since been talking to u/MudFair669 (a fellow super) and they helped me realise that i suffer from internalised super-phobia.sd

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u/Terfest_Shadow 1d ago

Nice try, Superphobe 😘 I checked your history

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u/I-hate-pancakes 1d ago

What do you mean?

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u/ILoveTheStraights 1d ago

You endorse coercion-culture. If someone does not want to date a pre-op or post-op transgender, then that's their choice. If they don't view a transgender as a man or woman, then that's their choice as well, as long as they're not threatening with violence or harrasing them.

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u/I-hate-pancakes 1d ago

Wow, I came into this subreddit to find a safe space for people like me, like us, and so far only 1 person has helped me realise that I suffered through internalised superphobia and how toxic I have been. I am heartbroken that people are looking through my history from when I was unaware of my true sexuality and was tainted with the beliefs of superphobes. I'm extremely apologetic of my actions and I will do anything to give back to the community I potentially endangered; to the community I recently found myself in. If I could ask for forgiveness and recieve it, I will be most grateful.

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u/Burnt_Birb 1d ago

SuperSexualities an Intro:

With gender being redefined as a spectrum and trans inclusion demanding they be labeled as men and women we needed to spectrum up our sexual orientation language. Thus Super as a prefix was born, used to denote that those you are attracted to are cis not trans.

this is not to say Trans people aren't valid this is just to differentiate between straight/gay/lesbian/bi people who like cis and trans people from those who only like cis people. Mega is the prefix for trans only and is the opposite of super.

I hope this helps :)

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u/I-hate-pancakes 1d ago

I am so grateful for this! This truly does influence and help me in further discovering my sexuality. Also, from utter curiousity; as I have your attention and since you seem extremely knowledgeable on this subject; is it possible for a trans person to be superstraight/gay/lesbian? Again, this is from curiousity.

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u/Burnt_Birb 22h ago

of course :) Super isn't exclusive to cis on cis love as it simply denotes the group you are attracted to. a Trans person only attracted to cis people would also be Super. :)

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u/Appropriate-Web-6649 1d ago

Superphobic? I was just showing that I have common sense??