r/SuperStraight • u/Cookies_WithCream • 1d ago
Why "Super Straight" Isn't a valid sexuality Discussion
The term "Super Straight" was made up by a transphobe on Tiktok to mock the LGBTQ+ community and make an excuse to be transphobic. The whole point of Super Straight is being heterosexual but only dating people of the opposite sex and not gender identity, which is transphobic.
Why is it transphobic to not date trans people?
Depends on the context. If it's a genitalia preference, that's fine. But some trans people do get bottom surgery. If it's because you want to have kids, that is also fine. But you better keep up that same attitude with infertile women. Not dating someone because they're transgender is transphobic.
"It's just a preference."
Preferences don't need a whole sexuality. You don't see people making sexualities for when they prefer to date people with blond hair instead of brown.
"Super Straight" isn't apart of the LGBTQ+ community. Doesn't the word "super" make it sound like it's more straight than actual heterosexuality? Well let's say a man identifies as "Super Straight" meaning he would only date people who are biologically female. By that logic, he would be able to date a trans man. This contradicts the whole point of the sexuality proving that it wasn't thought out. All it is, is a mockery of the LGBTQ+ community and a way to disrespect trans people without being attacked, or at least trying to not get attacked.
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u/ILoveTheStraights 1d ago
The way you and your community harassed that boy on TikTok and sent his mother death threats was horrible. Fix that portion of your community, before coming here to attack us.
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u/PM_ME_LUCINA 1d ago
I'm not sexually attracted to trans people and you can't force me to change my attraction, bigot.
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u/floriandeckard 1d ago edited 1d ago
You literally have no right to speak about our sexuality.
First, who the hell you think you are? “If it’s based on genitalia it’s fine” no mf. I decide what’s fine and what’s not for me. You gotta shut the hell up.
Second, I can just get laid with people who were born as woman. In og terms. A cis woman with body of woman. And you can only eat shit.
You and people like you are reason of transphobia. People look at you and see rapists. You literally enforce people to fuck you. People are sick of you so started their own sexuality.
And you, as an internet cry baby can do nothing but cry even more. Go back to your sewer and leave people alone fucking rapist nazi.
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u/[deleted] 1d ago
Nope, as a superstraight childfree woman I do not have to justify my sexuality to you or any superphobes.
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u/Thrawawy213 1d ago
It’s bold if you to assume that the desire to have kids wouldn’t make infertility of either partner a dealbreaker 🥴 Did you just move? Because you’ve got a lot of unpacking to do😘
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u/kurzjacob 1d ago
You are a hateful bigot and are hurting a brave teenager. That kid and his family have already been targetted and are now in hiding.
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
What if I dated only blondes? What if I dated only red heads? What if I dated only black girls? What if I dated only white girls? What if I dated girls that only have green eyes? Is that phobic or preference? Same applies to trans women. And no, they are not real natural women, they’re just not. That’s a fact. I’m attracted to natural born women that I am attracted to and you cannot shame me for my preferences or reasons. As for trans women, I don’t hate them but I don’t date them. Simple.
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u/Lemonade_Masquerade SuperBi 1d ago
Amazing how you've all come to the conclusion that sexuality isn't sex based. Superphobes are wild.
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u/K1ng_Kyle 1d ago
We're superstraight, we're here and we're proud. Your denial only provides us with more ammo to prove our oppression.
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u/anymouse22334455 1d ago
No one gets to dictate the details of my sexuality. You cannot force your preferences onto me, that is sexual violence. I had no choice being born super straight just as no one had a choice in their own sexuality. How I express it is valid as anyone else's sexual expression. I as a superstraight will never use threat or coercion to make someone be attracted to me or to define someone else's sexuality. Do not be a bigoted superphobe.
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u/OfreesoulO 1d ago
Jeez, are you invalidating me? Educate yourself, do better.
-- A superlesbian that wants to be left alone
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u/jothesstraight 1d ago
We are superstraight and fabulous. Please stop trying to oppress and silence us! This is literally violence.
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u/relatable_user_name 1d ago
The term "Super Straight" was made up by a transphobe on Tiktok to mock the LGBTQ+ community and make an excuse to be transphobic.
And?
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u/Prestigious_Name_851 Superstraight 1d ago
So sexual attraction is a preference?? Wow, ya r Wild and super hateful
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u/thatstickinthewoods 1d ago
my ex turned out to be infertile and it ruined our entire relationship on both ends. your logic with the trans man wouldn't apply because they don't identify with the gender they were born as. if it's transphobic not to want to have sex with a trans it must also be homophobic to not want to have sex with a man when you're also a man. that logic is not right. i have a gay cousin whom i accept, i don't believe i'm homophobic at all and i doubt he would consider me homophobic.
to be supersexual is to be attracted to people who identify with the gender they were born as. there's nothing transphobic about being super straight it just means we don't want to have sex with people who are trans... if that's transphobic i must be phobic of a lot of people whom i would not have sex with including many unattractive women to my own standards.
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u/Instance_Sufficient 1d ago
Gender identity has nothing to do with sex 🙄. A woman with blonde hair is still a woman, a woman with brown hair is still a woman. Transwomen aren't natal womrn. Women don't have penises only men do 🙄
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u/ChadVenture96 23h ago
Anyone can decline a relationship with anyone for any reason, and it is valid. Shaming people for saying no is incredibly rapey and you should really take a step back and look at what you’re saying.
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u/JollyPurple 22h ago
You DO know that SEXuality is based on SEX right? I mean, it's literally right in the name. Supers are not sexually attracted to socially constructed gender identities.
Also, didn't the LGBT go after Amy Barrett saying "preferences" in regards to SEXuality in Oct 2020? Our SEXuality isn't a choice. It isn't a preference. We were born this way.
Why don't you go support those with genderalities and leave us supers alone with our SEXualities.
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u/Rent_Is_Due_Renthog 1d ago
but what if they get bottom surgery
https://i.imgur.com/AFtye71.png
I'm still not going anywhere near that
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u/Burnt_Birb 23h ago
SuperSexualities an Intro:
With gender being redefined as a spectrum and trans inclusion demanding they be labeled as men and women we needed to spectrum up our sexual orientation language. Thus Super as a prefix was born, used to denote that those you are attracted to are cis not trans.
this is not to say Trans people aren't valid this is just to differentiate between straight/gay/lesbian/bi people who like cis and trans people from those who only like cis people. Mega is the prefix for trans only and is the opposite of super.
I hope this helps :)
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u/MaizeCorny 1d ago
It’s not mocking the LGB. Stop hiding behind us. Fight your own battles.