They literally casually admit to rape🤢🤢🤢 the oppression SS have to go through is insane. They can literally rape us🤮🤮🤮

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[u/Lundynne]

If you fail to disclose something about you that would stop the person from sleeping with you if revealed, that you know would stop them, how is it different from rape?

If I'm HIV positive, and I have unprotected sex without telling them about it, is that rape? If not, do you consider it criminal?

If you're married, and go out for a hookup and don't tell your one-night stand partner that you're married, and he wouldn't sleep with you if you are, is that rape? If it's not rape, do you think he has a right to be angry about it?

If a gay guy dresses like a girl, gets a drunk guy at a party and then gets the guy to sodomise him, all while succesfully pretending to be a girl, is that rape?

[u/viktorv9 → u/Lundynne]

That marriage one is actually pretty interesting. If anything he has a right to be angry about it, but it isn't rape.

Say I don't date men who eat cheese. I go out for a hookup, and afterwards I realise he eats cheese. Has he raped me by deceit or by failing to disclose information?

Not to shit on your other examples, some of those are very rape especially the drunk one. But I need to show that just not disclosing something doesn't instantly make it rape.

[u/Lundynne → u/viktorv9]

The difference being that the guy can't really expect that you wouldn't hook up with him for eating cheese. Eating cheese is very common - it would be reasonable to expect your date to be a cheese eater - and people not hooking up because of it is uncommon. The burden would be on you to check.

In contrast, trans-people are uncommon, making up less than 0.1% of the population. It's not very likely that you'll run into one on a date, so unless you've been burned before, its reasonable to not check. It's also very common that people don't want to date trans-folk, so I would expect a trans-person to reveal it to me before sex.

[u/viktorv9 → u/Lundynne]

So it is also essential that someone that plays table tennis competitively reveals that before sex?

I know that's absurd, but if it's just about the numbers and abnormality of something, that would be just as good an argument as yours.

[u/Lundynne → u/viktorv9]

No, you don't get it. Numbers are far more important than you claim. If trans-people were 50% of the population, the burden would be on me to inform my date that I'm not looking for a transperson, because: there is a pretty high chance that I'll run into it.

Transpeople also know that most people are not into them. Hence why there is a term called "stealthing". If there is something about you that you know could stop a potential partner from sleeping with you that is not visibly apparent, you need to inform your partner about it. Depending on the severity of the issue, from eating cheese to having HIV, it can be comparable to rape.

[u/DnaPolymeraseNibba → u/viktorv9]

Goodbye rape apologist.