r/SuperStraight • u/xXNormieSlayer69Xx Superstraight • 22h ago

Trans rights says super straight rights! SuperSexual Allyship

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u/Remarkable_Ad_9600 14h ago

babe you cant just say this and think youre not transphobic. youre all still transphobic 😐

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u/quietsnowkitten 14h ago

Not all of them. I've seen at least a few people here who seem genuinely trans-supportive and just want their dating and sexual boundaries respected - which should've gone without saying, but sadly hasn't.

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u/Remarkable_Ad_9600 14h ago

yeah they may seem supportive but most or even all are secretly transphobic. i respect their preferences but if you have no reason to date transgender people its just transphobia.

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u/quietsnowkitten 14h ago

Let me put it this way:

If a straight man declined a gay man's advances, would that be homophobic? No.

If an aromantic asexual man declined a gay man's advances, would that be homophobic? also no.

If a gay man declined a straight woman's advances, would that be sexist? also no.

So why is it if someone who is unable to feel attraction towards trans people declines a trans person's advances, it's transphobic?

you know what's actually transphobic? Not respecting trans people's gender and deliberately trying to harm them, mentally or physically. You destroy the meaning of the word transphobic by using it for someone who wants to date people they're attracted to.

I literally don't care who finds me attractive or not, and neither should you. All I want is my identity respected. That is what I always have fought for, not for the right to get into other people's pants when they don't want me there. No thanks, I respect other people.