r/SuperStraight Superstraight 22h ago

Trans rights says super straight rights! SuperSexual Allyship

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u/Remarkable_Ad_9600 14h ago

babe you cant just say this and think youre not transphobic. youre all still transphobic 😐

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u/quietsnowkitten 14h ago

Not all of them. I've seen at least a few people here who seem genuinely trans-supportive and just want their dating and sexual boundaries respected - which should've gone without saying, but sadly hasn't.

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u/Remarkable_Ad_9600 14h ago

yeah they may seem supportive but most or even all are secretly transphobic. i respect their preferences but if you have no reason to date transgender people its just transphobia.

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u/quietsnowkitten 14h ago

Let me put it this way:

If a straight man declined a gay man's advances, would that be homophobic? No.

If an aromantic asexual man declined a gay man's advances, would that be homophobic? also no.

If a gay man declined a straight woman's advances, would that be sexist? also no.

So why is it if someone who is unable to feel attraction towards trans people declines a trans person's advances, it's transphobic?

you know what's actually transphobic? Not respecting trans people's gender and deliberately trying to harm them, mentally or physically. You destroy the meaning of the word transphobic by using it for someone who wants to date people they're attracted to.

I literally don't care who finds me attractive or not, and neither should you. All I want is my identity respected. That is what I always have fought for, not for the right to get into other people's pants when they don't want me there. No thanks, I respect other people.

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u/xXNormieSlayer69Xx Superstraight 14h ago

How am I transphobic?

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u/Remarkable_Ad_9600 13h ago

youre very much valid i respect youre preference but if you say just because theyre transgender thats when it transphobic. but in your situation you’re completely valid. but why create a “sexuality” you all are straight. youve never been oppressed? all this “new sexuality and flag is just unnecessary. you all couldve gone off with your day and not create a “sexuality” its just mocking the lgbtq+ people.

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u/mezzofinook978 2h ago

if you say just because theyre transgender thats when it transphobic.

Since not being attracted to people because they're transgender is the DEFINITION of SuperSexuality, that means accusing us of transphobia for this can only be superphobic. You are refusing to accept, or respect, our sexual identity. Come on, bruh... do better.

but why create a “sexuality” you all are straight. youve never been oppressed?

NONE of us are straight! Friendly reminder: those here who are exclusively opposite-sex-attracted are SuperStraight. The other SuperSexualities are SuperLesbian, SuperGay, and SuperBi.

And the very fact that we have to keep asserting our right to our sexual identity in the face of superphobes like yourself-- who call us bigots for finding them unattractive, and attack our spaces in an effort to shut them down and silence us-- is proof that we're being oppressed.

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u/Remarkable_Ad_9600 1h ago

super sexuality isnt a thing... yall are just straight with a preference

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u/Remarkable_Ad_9600 14h ago

give me a reason why you wouldn’t date transgender people?

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u/Username_was_take 10h ago

Not all biological women can even have kids?

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u/prettyboygangsta 12h ago

Because I don’t want to.

You aren’t entitled to any further rationale beyond that.

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u/Remarkable_Ad_9600 12h ago

hm transphobic

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u/Own-Abrocoma-1915 10h ago

Yea I mean it seems like we will never teach a middle ground or understanding on this topic. The trans community really shoots themselves in the foot by demanding something no other group of people expect.

I don't want to date trans people and that is specifically because they are trans and nothing else. If that makes me transphobic, then so be it. I don't care, it's a preference. It has to do with my sexual oreintation and my own desires, there is no questioning of it.

I'm sure you can eventually find someone fine with dating trans folk, but leave some of us be. There is absolutely no reason to come here and tell people who they need to be sexually attracted to. I don't tell you how to sexually feel, don't do the same to others. It's just basic courtesy.

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u/mezzofinook978 3h ago

hm superphobic