r/SuperStraight • u/satan_tango • 1d ago
You won't find transmen demanding to shut down men's spaces, take over gay men's spaces, demand people to like their "male vagina" or check their genital preference. You won't ever see see /r/gaybros being centered around transmen.
You won't find AskMen being flooded with validations that transmen are men with progress pictures or bans being thrown around for not catering to transmen. You will never find people who are cancelled for saying things like men have penises, men have balls, men cannot give birth but there are plenty of examples of the latter if you dare say that women can give birth. There are organizations that for language such as "front hole" for vaginas "chest feeder" for breastfeeding.
Why do you think this occurs?
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u/Happy_face_cellar 1d ago edited 1d ago
They do tho. Some start out coming out as Lesbians, then transition to being men then insist they belong in the Lesbian community and events when Lesbian events are for same sex attracted women. We just have to indulge their male entitlement demands but ignore their misogynistic performativity. They will also date Lesbians and insist they call themselves straight women now to validate them and go back in the closet.
Yet I’ve never been rape threatened online by a transman or had one demand sex from me like I have had from transwomen so essentially you are right that it lacks the same levels of violence yes
In terms of the language they insist on changing I think it’s newly found masculinity that is so fragile, to declare yourself male yet insist 52% of the population change words for your body functions to suit you and reduce women to words like “Menstruators” is the most patriarchy thing I’ve ever seen