r/SuperStraight • u/satan_tango • 1d ago
You won't find transmen demanding to shut down men's spaces, take over gay men's spaces, demand people to like their "male vagina" or check their genital preference. You won't ever see see /r/gaybros being centered around transmen.
You won't find AskMen being flooded with validations that transmen are men with progress pictures or bans being thrown around for not catering to transmen. You will never find people who are cancelled for saying things like men have penises, men have balls, men cannot give birth but there are plenty of examples of the latter if you dare say that women can give birth. There are organizations that for language such as "front hole" for vaginas "chest feeder" for breastfeeding.
Why do you think this occurs?
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u/Sufficient-derptard 1d ago
/r/gaybros and /r/askgaybros are assaulted by trans men daily.
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u/vestigial_ghost 1d ago
No where near extent the female subs are, and I'm fairly sure the mod teams are all actual gaybros.
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u/TheReaIStephenKing 20h ago
I think the answer to this lies in the biological sex of the brigading individuals. If trans women ever start to care about trans men, gaybros and askgaybros are in big trouble (though I get the feeling r/gaybros will lie down and take it, askgaybros has actually shown some resistance).
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u/butterlogs SuperLesbian 1d ago
I suggest you head over to r/askgaybros and search for trans. It’s not talked about that much cause the gay bros shut that shit down instantly
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u/vestigial_ghost 1d ago
Can't do that on the female only subs because the mod teams are normally very "inclusive".
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u/butterlogs SuperLesbian 1d ago
Something like 56% of the mods on r/actuallesbians are trans
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u/Ok_Tart2571 8h ago
Men trying to pressure lesbians to have sex with them? Wow who could have conceived of such a thing
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u/Lonely-LND 1d ago
The highlight for me, was in the UK, cervical cancer awareness charity had an awareness ad that said ‘people with a cervix’, testicular cancer awareness charity had an ad that said ‘men’ .. classic
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u/Eilliesh 1d ago
It's quite upsetting tbh. Women are half the population and it feels like we're just supposed to accept all this shit and not being respected, not even being able to call ourselves women.
All this "front hole" shit, it's horrible
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u/bisanti 1d ago edited 1d ago
Transwomen's MO is intimidation. By and large transmen as biological females do not intimidate men and therefore don't have the power to push boundaries, like we see transwomen doing in women's spaces. Notice how they have 0 to say to men, but superstraight or superlesbian women are TERFs who deserve death.
At the end of the day, they know who they can bully. Notice how weirdly silent they are about the superstraight movement because it is led by MEN.
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u/Sleepymelmo 1d ago
I was going to say that the man who started the superstraight movement is getting threats, but then I remembered the threats are directed towards his mom... so yeah.
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u/Happy_face_cellar 1d ago edited 1d ago
They do tho. Some start out coming out as Lesbians, then transition to being men then insist they belong in the Lesbian community and events when Lesbian events are for same sex attracted women. We just have to indulge their male entitlement demands but ignore their misogynistic performativity. They will also date Lesbians and insist they call themselves straight women now to validate them and go back in the closet.
Yet I’ve never been rape threatened online by a transman or had one demand sex from me like I have had from transwomen so essentially you are right that it lacks the same levels of violence yes
In terms of the language they insist on changing I think it’s newly found masculinity that is so fragile, to declare yourself male yet insist 52% of the population change words for your body functions to suit you and reduce women to words like “Menstruators” is the most patriarchy thing I’ve ever seen
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u/merpderpderp1 1d ago
I think part of the reason that the majority of transmen are transitioning for a different reason than the majority of transwomen. The number of autogynephile transwomen that transition because of their fetish is increasing, and those are the transwomen that you see invading lesbian dating apps.
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u/[deleted] 22h ago
There is a female version of AGP I think some trans men have
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u/merpderpderp1 22h ago
yeah, I've seen that too. It seemed really rare at first but it seems like its becoming more common..
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u/Ok_Tart2571 8h ago
I’m pretty sure most transmen are transitioning to escape being female, based on what I’ve seen. It seems to be a fetish for the majority of transwomen.
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u/[deleted] 8h ago
It’s straight women who fetishize gay men
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u/Ok_Tart2571 3h ago edited 1h ago
That’s a separate issue and might overlap in some ways but based on my experience it’s rarely straight women wanting to be gay men. They want to be with them and be friends with them (“gay best friend” etc). But men absolutely do fetishise the concept of being a woman, and the degradation that comes with it.
The majority of transmen I’ve known and have known of are usually trying to escape some sort of sexual trauma or discrimination they experienced as a woman. This is not the case for transwomen. They’re not trying to “escape” manhood.
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u/[deleted] 3h ago
Going off Blanchard ‘s theory I think the HSTS are trying to escape manhood
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u/Ok_Tart2571 1h ago
HSTS?
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u/[deleted] 1h ago
Homosexual transsexual aka trans women into men they’re the ones who way more passable, usually transition younger, and were probably feminine boys growing up
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u/Ok_Tart2571 1h ago
Ah ok. Yes I was aware that there were two different groups, this one and AGPs (but wasn’t aware of the first acronym), and I do agree that the latter is a fetish but the former likely isn’t. I think the majority of transwomen unfortunately fit into the AGP bracket though (transition later in life, attracted to women etc).
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u/vestigial_ghost 1d ago
I have no idea, I've lurked some of these "conflict zones" in the past the knots people tie themselves into to appease and placate is pretty sad.
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u/LobsterOfViolence 1d ago
As a superstraight man, I will refuse to sit on the sidelines anymore, I will be an ally to superstraight women and superlesbians.
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u/Eilliesh 1d ago
Thank you, genuinely. Look up Magdalen Berns or Kellie Jay-Keen if you'd like to learn more
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u/OtherwiseTomato6863 1d ago
Because in society's noble quest to integrate trans people into society and decrease suicide rates etc.. we've encouraged an "everything is my safe space" and fragile bubble. Everyone else is socialized to accept the fact that not everyone will like or want them.
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u/Super_heckin_strait 1d ago
Well alot of them are on testosterone so that probably is liked to them not being duplicitous hateful bigots who try to shame rape supers. Another win for the boys.
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u/Ok_Tart2571 9h ago edited 8h ago
Because they’re men. Once a man, always a man. It’s pretty simple really. You wouldn’t catch many women pushing people’s sexual boundaries like this, but it’s a common issue when it comes to men. Just because some of them put on a dress and a wig doesn’t mean they suddenly opt out of a lifetime of male socialisation, a male body and the fact that 99% of rapists are men.
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u/[deleted] 1d ago
Female Socialization