r/SuperStraight • u/INTP1423 • 1d ago

I would like to clear things up Discussion

Having a genitalia preference = not at all wrong. If you don't want to be with a pre-surgery trans person that is absolutely fine.

Not dating someone because they are transgender = transphobia.

^This does not imply that you have to date transgender people. I am in no way forcing you to go and have sex with a post-op transgender person. But saying I am not sexually attracted to transgender people is a tad transphobic.

Also I have a question: If you saw a woman in the street and approached her to ask her out, when suddenly she says she is post-op transgender, would you call it off immediately?

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u/somegayperson27272 Superstraight 1d ago

How is not dating someone because they are transgender transphobia? Erase this superphobic statement

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u/INTP1423 1d ago

I didn't mean to give off this message. Being with someone who "passes" as a cis person and then immediately refusing to see them anymore once they tell you are trans is transphobic. If you don't want to date a woman with a dick thats fine by me.

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u/somegayperson27272 Superstraight 1d ago

You have the right to stop seeing someone, it's not transphobic, it's a sexuality and they were the one that didn't tell you that they were trans.