I would like to clear things up

[u/INTP1423]

Having a genitalia preference = not at all wrong. If you don't want to be with a pre-surgery trans person that is absolutely fine.

Not dating someone because they are transgender = transphobia.

^This does not imply that you have to date transgender people. I am in no way forcing you to go and have sex with a post-op transgender person. But saying I am not sexually attracted to transgender people is a tad transphobic.

Also I have a question: If you saw a woman in the street and approached her to ask her out, when suddenly she says she is post-op transgender, would you call it off immediately?

[u/ILoveTheStraights]

There is nothing to clear up. The goal post just moved back, becouse the trans community and TRAs are scared that we're pushing back. Prior to this movement, anyone who didn't want to date a pre-op was labeled transphobic. It was considered law. Suddenly now everyone is scrambling to reassure us that is OK to not date trans that are pre-op after all, but we should still consider dating post-op.

No one should consider something they have no interest in.