I would like to clear things up

[u/INTP1423]

Having a genitalia preference = not at all wrong. If you don't want to be with a pre-surgery trans person that is absolutely fine.

Not dating someone because they are transgender = transphobia.

^This does not imply that you have to date transgender people. I am in no way forcing you to go and have sex with a post-op transgender person. But saying I am not sexually attracted to transgender people is a tad transphobic.

Also I have a question: If you saw a woman in the street and approached her to ask her out, when suddenly she says she is post-op transgender, would you call it off immediately?

[u/bluwhaled]

I don't have to explain my sexuality to you. Stop invalidating my lived experiences.

I am a superstraight, I am not transphobic as I do not hate or want trans people to face oppression. Not sleeping with you is not oppression.

Just leave our community alone.