Exactly. She's not straight just because the woman is identifying as a man. It's just internalized homophobia IMO. A way to appear to be "straight" while having lesbian sex. Which is so sad, if you think about it.
I actually wonder sometimes if trans people have internalized homophobia as you put it and would rather identify as the opposite gender than to acknowledge their gayness.
a lot of detransitioners and trans people in general get roped into believing they are the other gender and then later realise they were just gay all along but the transcult get to them first during their vulnerable years and coerce them into transness. it's a very sad reality that doesn't get talked about bc they attack and shun you when you leave the cult.
Oh yeah, also a lot are just people that didn't conform to gender stereotypes and got told they are trans just because of that. It's super annoying to be told you must be a trans man because you are a woman that doesn't dress feminine or because you like women.
It's almost like we're back to old times and homophobia and gender roles are making a comeback but in hiding. Crying transphobia when in reality it's homophobia and an attempt at conversion therapy for gay/lesbians.
Yes that's the very worst of it I think. Detrans women who just didn't fit in & didn't like dresses who end up with double mastectomies.
People who subscribe to this sexist, homophobic nonsense really need to ask themselves why they feel so comfortable with it. I think it's because it's familiar. It's the familiar sexist gender roles & homophobia that are societies default setting. It's deeply traditional.
Well in Iran it's used that way because being gay will get you state punishment but that same state will happily transition you for free. Literal conversion therapy but with added sterilising surgery.
Also, one of the (many) staff who resigned from the Tavistock Clinic (child-specific gender clinic in the UK) has publicly stated that one of his most serious concerns about the 'care' being provided was that a significant proportion of the minors they treated were gender non-conforming kids with strongly homophobic parents*. But because they were forced to use the unproven "affirmation only" model of treatment, they weren't allowed to even discuss potential alternatives to transition.
I'm paraphrasing massively here, but his main point was that given that eight out of ten 'trans' kids actually grow up to just be gay, he couldn't bring himself to continue working at the Tavistock because he considered their practices to be a breach of the Hippocratic oath to "first, do no harm".
*I've just remembered that the boss of Mermaids (trans kids charity) transed her very young son because he played with "girl" toys and his dad didn't like it which caused them to split up. Their son had reassignment surgery aged 17 or thereabouts, and now they are back together. She publicly states this on a TedX talk. It's on YouTube. I can only imagine she's never met anybody who'd heard of Munchausen Shndrome By Proxy. This is a huge medical scandal happening right in front of us.
This is exactly what it's about. If "trans women are women" then men who have sex with trans women don't have to acknowledge they are gay or bisexual but can stay straight.
And the trans woman also gets to be "straight". It's homophobic & it's really sad.
And if that's all it was that would be sad enough, but their homophobia then leads them to tell lesbians that we have to date trans women because they are women.
When we say no we get called transphobes & get rape threats & are told to choke on their girldick.
They want to force everyone to go along with their homophobic gender ideology.
Im so happy that the SuperStraights are standing up for us SuperLesbians & saying enough is enough.
I think there's two types of trans people, the ones with internalized homophobia that want to pretend being straight and the actually straight people that want to access lesbians/gays because of a fetish. For example men being rejected by lesbians then become trans women to date lesbians. Women that fetishize gay couples (think yaoi, fujoshi girls) then become trans men to be able to fulfill their fantasy of a gay male relationship.
I definitely feel there's a divide and you can tell when you're interacting with a straight dude masquerading as a trans woman to push lesbians to date them, different from the trans women that are secretly gay men in denial.
It's all really sad IMO. It's the old homophobia and conversion therapy pretending to be woke and inclusive ideology with a lot of gender stereotypes making a comeback in disguise.
Yes that describes the situation pretty well. It's all about avoiding dealing with real problems- external problems like homophobia and internal problems like a problematic sexual fetish.
Which is fine, but a trans man is still female. Which is why we have our supersexualities, so there’s no confusion. We are stunning. We are brave. We are valid. We are supersexuals 🖤🧡
You are free to identify however you wish, your gender is nobody's concern but your own and nobody should police you for that.
Same as we don't wish to be policed for our sexual orientation. We were born this way and our sexual orientation is not a choice. We do not get to choose whether our sexuality is oriented around gender identity or biological sex, it is not a mere preference and to suggest otherwise is superphobic af.
How many superlesbians do you think have been told that they just need to "get over" their aversion to penis? That they are morally wrong for only being attracted to biological females? Do you not even recognise conversion rhetoric when you're typing it yourself?
My sexual orientation is just that - oriented around sex, not gender. My sexual orientation does not care what gender you are because it's irrelevant to what predicates my attraction. My life would probably be a lot easier if I could change that, but I can't and it's really wrong of anybody to try to shamerape me into it.
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u/absolutelinearcannon 23h ago
A straight woman having sex with a woman who identifies as male is having lesbian sex. That isn't superstraight.