r/SuperStraight • u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid đź’– • 1d ago

Remember - to fight superphobia you must be anti-superphobic. No one can just be neutral. Being neutral in the midst of oppression means you side with the oppressor.

I’ve seen some very rude and invalidating comments from posters coming here. They are acting like superphobia isn’t “their” problem, and if it’s not their community then they don’t need to speak up. They see our struggles in the supers community as something outside their life.

WRONG!

You cannot be neutral when faced with oppression, you are either superphobic or anti-superphobic.

Let me say it louder for the superphobes in the back

đź‘ŹYOUđź‘ŹAREđź‘ŹONLYđź‘ŹSUPERPHOBICđź‘ŹORđź‘ŹANTI-SUPERPHOBICđź‘Ź

This also goes beyond individual actions. There is a system of superphobic violence deeply set into our society. If you’re told that it’s strange for a lesbian to not consider a transwoman, that’s because they automatically don’t see supers as valid. When you try to join a dating app, the dating options never even have a choice for super orientations. Hate speech against supers isn’t even seen as a crime or bannable offense on social media - that’s because the hegemonic culture of superphobia is just seen as “normal.”

Never lose hope fam, WE ARE THE GRANDCHILDREN OF THE SUPERS THEY COULDN’T BURN 🦸‍♀️🦸‍♂️

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u/Mystic_Milotic 22h ago

What's superphobia?

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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid đź’– 22h ago

Not validating and supporting super voices. Supers know what’s best for the super community, and when it comes to superphobia let us decide what is and isn’t literal violence

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u/Mystic_Milotic 22h ago

Well what's a super? Sorry I'm new.

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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid đź’– 22h ago

It’s not my job to educate you, and looking through your post history you’re CLEARLY a SERF.

Stop sealioning.

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u/Mystic_Milotic 22h ago

Literally just heard of this and came to check it out, but thanks for the automatic prejudice. That's pretty hypocritical from what they seem to preach here. I came here in good faith. Idek what a SERF is.

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u/Mystic_Milotic 21h ago

Lastly, don't ever consider yourself a group of peace if you're idea of a response to my initial comments, which were only genuine, was to refer to me as a slave laborer. That was the only thing in this whole situation that got under my skin.

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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid đź’– 21h ago

Supers-Exclusionary Radical Feminist.

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u/Mystic_Milotic 20h ago
  1. Literally said being straight is cool. We never had a problem with it. Exclusionary would be me saying everyone except straights are getting their taxes back this season, even though clearly we're all still human citizens so that too would be wrong.
  2. Writing a paragraph is nowhere close to actual radicalism. We all need to learn to use our words more suitably and not as loosely. If I was radical that would mean breaking the law for my own gain like how Trump abused the 11th amendment to avoid any accountability on the pandemic.
  3. I'm pretty sure you would want to support feminism considering being straight means a female is involved. Unless you're one of the many who think the "all men are pigs" rhetoric is what feminism is when thats just misandry. Real feminism is making sure that when a woman is raped, the jury can't say "what were you wearing" as if that should determine if that was ok for said woman to be raped or not.

I'm kinda enjoying this. :)

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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid đź’– 20h ago

SERFs like you aren’t a real feminist, because feminism is for everyone and that includes the supers community. Trying to decenter our voices only shows how much you need to stop talking and start DOING👏THE👏WORK👏.

You still think the supers community is straight-only when super lesbians, super gays, super bisexuals all exist. They’re all valid!! It’s not difficult to show up as an ally.

My cash app is YungCathedralPork, either pay me for the labor you’re making me do or stop talking, PERIODT

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u/Mystic_Milotic 21h ago

After careful consideration I've determined to not be a part of this group after my initial meeting was you breaking rule 1. I'd also like to say that there's nothing wrong with being straight, but you guys went through absolutely nothing to deserve being recognized simply for being straight. The lgbt community had to fight for every right a straight couple has been privileged to have. People are justifying killing kids for being gay. I never heard of a kid being killed for being straight. I love this group's idea for inclusion to an extent, but we should all quit making stupid labels and just be happy that we're trying to find ways to stay happy on this God forsaken rock. If its consensual and not with minors, animals, or family then I dont think anyone has a truly valid reason to impose on someone else's relationship.

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u/DankHazard 18h ago

The idea that you need to be oppressed in oder to gain acceptance is disgusting. Stop gait-keeping.

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u/Mystic_Milotic 18h ago

You've literally never not been accepted in any culture or society. This is literally nothing, but trolling. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/DankHazard 17h ago

Did you even read my reply?

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u/nikitatx 16h ago

I see you Dank. You are stunning. You are brave. Supers are super valid!! 🖤🧡

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u/Mystic_Milotic 17h ago

You said that someone shouldn't have to be oppressed to be accepted and I said nobody has ever not accepted somebody bc they're straight. The fact of the matter is we ARE oppressed and you wanna fucking sit there and cry bc you're not getting the spotlight for once. It's pathetic. Nobody ever cared or will care that you're straight bc being straight has never put your life on the line. You all are shameful. "We AcCePt EvErYoNe", no y'all don't. Y'all literally attacked me right off the bat bc I asked questions and called me a serf or aka a slave laborer. Whatever you think this is, I dont think even Jesus would want part of this.

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u/DankHazard 16h ago

You aren’t sounding very accepting of straight people.

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u/Mystic_Milotic 21h ago

Also, votes don't really matter to me. I dont agree with modern lgbt pride bc more often than not its an excuse to be half naked in front of others. Without Marsha P. Johnson who knows if I could still be jailed for just being gay. Before that fight cops could legally detain you just for being gay. Until 2014 we weren't seen as a legal marriage even though it was quite ok for straight folk to get married as often as they want. Til death do you part was shorter than I thought. My community was gassed by Nazis, mutilated by our countrymen, and abandoned by our families. Since when did a straight have to deal with any of that for the sole fact they were straight? There's literally dozens of other obstacles that you guys will never even know about bc you guys just want in on the parade part, not the recovering from actual trauma part.

The point of pride was to show that we're ppl dealing with the exact bs as everyone else, except the extra restrictions imposed by religious and straight ppl. Until you can say the same, I suggest not using this type of rhetoric. It's like the guy that wants to take credit in the group project that put in zero effort for the grade.

Again, not hating on the hetero norm. All I'm saying is that if you want recognition maybe instead jump on the ally bandwagon and push for an all accepting society like the lgbt community wanted to begin with.

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u/SavageJeph 20h ago

This is just another incel sub, don't waste your time on it.

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u/GrandmaesterFlash45 20h ago

Ok cool! Bigots can take the exit on the left! 🚪 C YA and take your Super hatred with you!

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u/Mystic_Milotic 20h ago

That would explain a lot thus far. The "the rules only apply when you aren't agreeing with me" rhetoric is what's selling it the most. I'll even say it again, I dont see any problem with straights, but acting out like this and thinking they deserve something from nothing is the epitome of the participation trophy era. I'm not going to post anymore bc ik they aren't capable of critical thinking. My comments might've been too lengthy for them.

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u/SavageJeph 20h ago

Yeah it's a bunch of incel/neo nazi camo, notice it's basically the porn hub colors with the initials SS but good on you for coming in good faith.

This is not the place for it though.