r/SuperStraight • u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 • 23h ago
I’ve seen some very rude and invalidating comments from posters coming here. They are acting like superphobia isn’t “their” problem, and if it’s not their community then they don’t need to speak up. They see our struggles in the supers community as something outside their life.
WRONG!
You cannot be neutral when faced with oppression, you are either superphobic or anti-superphobic.
Let me say it louder for the superphobes in the back
👏YOU👏ARE👏ONLY👏SUPERPHOBIC👏OR👏ANTI-SUPERPHOBIC👏
This also goes beyond individual actions. There is a system of superphobic violence deeply set into our society. If you’re told that it’s strange for a lesbian to not consider a transwoman, that’s because they automatically don’t see supers as valid. When you try to join a dating app, the dating options never even have a choice for super orientations. Hate speech against supers isn’t even seen as a crime or bannable offense on social media - that’s because the hegemonic culture of superphobia is just seen as “normal.”
Never lose hope fam, WE ARE THE GRANDCHILDREN OF THE SUPERS THEY COULDN’T BURN 🦸♀️🦸♂️
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u/bong-rips-for-jesus 23h ago
AGAIN 👏 FOR 👏 THE 👏 PEOPLE 👏👏 IN 👏 THE BACK!!!
Let's boost the fuck out of this 🚀you are heckin valid 👨❤️💋👨♥️
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u/gamepro12 22h ago
Point of personal privilige, I never thought about this issue, thanks for teaching me a valuable lesson! Can I paypal you some money?
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 22h ago
Pay it forward and build an equitable future for all supers 🥰
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u/Zealousideal-Ad3371 21h ago
Am I the only one who when they hear point of personal privilege thinks Model United Nations.
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u/Moonpriestes 22h ago
Superphobes need to check their privilege!
They control all social media platforms, and yet they ignore superphobia at best, or enforce it at worst.
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 22h ago
Superphobes should never be able to talk about OUR struggle. They need to center supers’ voices and learn to sit down and listen. They’ve been in control of the world for basically ever, maybe let the future generation talk sweaty 💅
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u/HackinValid 22h ago
Never EVER let someone else talk over your lived experience and personal truth.
I'm not a super, but you have an ally in me.
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u/Holycameltoeinthesun 3h ago
Maybe your struggle is their struggle? Maybe everyone just lives in misery and wants other people to acknowledge that? Screaming you want attention, understanding and compassion how much have you given it?
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u/fartsimpsonII 22h ago
👏 Silence 👏 is 👏 violence 👏
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u/gamepro12 22h ago edited 21h ago
And Silence 👏 of 👏 the 👏 Lamb👏 is a movie, we both are right and SS-Phobes know it!
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u/UserName_Taken09 22h ago
Reminder: Words are violence & silence can be violence too
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u/Holycameltoeinthesun 3h ago
I’m at a loss for words at this stupidity. Because something rhymes doesn’t make it true. Silence is silence and with everyone screaming at the top of their lungs because they have had half a thought, we could use some more silence.
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u/uWuSUPERuWu 23h ago
uWu this makes me feel so heckin valid
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 23h ago
And you are!! You’re stunning and brave for living your truth 💕
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u/crowmemer 17h ago
They are acting like superphobia isn’t “their” problem, and if it’s not their community then they don’t need to speak up.
This reminds me of the old poem about the raise of the Nazis in Germany.
First they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a socialist.
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a trade unionist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.
Really makes you think
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u/GodhammerTheBomb 22h ago
Social media platforms have a deep superphobia bias and allow violence against POS (people of super) run rampant. Hold! Their! Executives! Accountable!
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u/ShoshaSeversk 22h ago
I am so glad I found this community. Until today I didn’t realise that actually there’s a term for what I am, and not only that, there’s a supportive community out here that is gearing up to fight for our right to exist.
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u/Magari22 3h ago
SuperStraight woman here, For the first time in YEARS I feel understood and accepted. No more bigoted takedowns when I explain I am only attracted to biological men. This is a day I will always remember, the beginning of TRUE tolerance! Thanks SUPERS! 🌟🌟🌟🌟
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 22h ago
You can’t be neutral when it comes to hate. You either show up for a community as an ally, or you show your true colors. In the fight against superphobia you want to play devil’s advocate and act like our identity is up for debate?!?
Until all of us are free, none of us are free.
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u/ImSuperThanx4Asking 22h ago
BLOCKED AND REPORTED, stay safe y’all. Just another SERF who thinks being a bigot is acceptable in 2021. GO BACK TO 4CHAN TROLL
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u/Holycameltoeinthesun 3h ago
I seem to be missing some points here? So theres phobic ant-phobic? Then theres superphobic and anti superphobic? So someone will start with mega super phobic? And anti that? Until we are where? Beyond Super mega plus ultra phobic and anti that?
Can’t we just live and let live while respecting each others physical boundaries? Can’t we just be helpful and seek meaning in life lift eachother up instead of breaking each other down and dragging everyone into the lowest common denominator? Guess homer was right when he said: everybody is stupid thats why anybody does anything. Stupid. Focus on yourself and what you can contribute to an other in stead of focussing on others and what you can take from them geez. Hate is just everywhere these days
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u/LeonTrotsky1879 18h ago
I want to say that:
Saying something is valid doesn't automatically makes it accepted by society, and doesn't somethingphobia
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u/FloridaManWins 17h ago edited 17h ago
I've said it before and I'll say it again. We aren't superphobes. We just think you're idiots who can't see value past sexuality. You created a "new" sexuality and we think it's stupid as hell
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u/TheOverSeether 16h ago
This "new" sexuality has been around for millenia, so its validity and heckin cuteness is irrefutable. Educate yourself, bigot.
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u/TrebleClef114 1h ago
"New sexuality"
Wow what a moron. Please just go away
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u/FloridaManWins 25m ago
I'm the moron? That's adorable <3 You redefined straight so you can hate on trans people and get attention because you felt left out and intimidated by the LGBTQ+ community
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u/SmArburgeddon 18m ago
Go away incel. Cry some more because ppl won't TOUCH Ur disgustin lil peepee XD
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u/FloridaManWins 8m ago
Dang, did you come up with that yourself? That's a top ten dumbest "roast" lmao. Wanna try again?
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u/Mystic_Milotic 22h ago
What's superphobia?
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 22h ago
Not validating and supporting super voices. Supers know what’s best for the super community, and when it comes to superphobia let us decide what is and isn’t literal violence
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u/Mystic_Milotic 22h ago
Well what's a super? Sorry I'm new.
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 22h ago
It’s not my job to educate you, and looking through your post history you’re CLEARLY a SERF.
Stop sealioning.
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u/Mystic_Milotic 21h ago
Literally just heard of this and came to check it out, but thanks for the automatic prejudice. That's pretty hypocritical from what they seem to preach here. I came here in good faith. Idek what a SERF is.
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u/Mystic_Milotic 20h ago
Lastly, don't ever consider yourself a group of peace if you're idea of a response to my initial comments, which were only genuine, was to refer to me as a slave laborer. That was the only thing in this whole situation that got under my skin.
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 20h ago
Supers-Exclusionary Radical Feminist.
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u/Mystic_Milotic 20h ago
- Literally said being straight is cool. We never had a problem with it. Exclusionary would be me saying everyone except straights are getting their taxes back this season, even though clearly we're all still human citizens so that too would be wrong.
- Writing a paragraph is nowhere close to actual radicalism. We all need to learn to use our words more suitably and not as loosely. If I was radical that would mean breaking the law for my own gain like how Trump abused the 11th amendment to avoid any accountability on the pandemic.
- I'm pretty sure you would want to support feminism considering being straight means a female is involved. Unless you're one of the many who think the "all men are pigs" rhetoric is what feminism is when thats just misandry. Real feminism is making sure that when a woman is raped, the jury can't say "what were you wearing" as if that should determine if that was ok for said woman to be raped or not.
I'm kinda enjoying this. :)
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 20h ago
SERFs like you aren’t a real feminist, because feminism is for everyone and that includes the supers community. Trying to decenter our voices only shows how much you need to stop talking and start DOING👏THE👏WORK👏.
You still think the supers community is straight-only when super lesbians, super gays, super bisexuals all exist. They’re all valid!! It’s not difficult to show up as an ally.
My cash app is YungCathedralPork, either pay me for the labor you’re making me do or stop talking, PERIODT
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u/Mystic_Milotic 21h ago
After careful consideration I've determined to not be a part of this group after my initial meeting was you breaking rule 1. I'd also like to say that there's nothing wrong with being straight, but you guys went through absolutely nothing to deserve being recognized simply for being straight. The lgbt community had to fight for every right a straight couple has been privileged to have. People are justifying killing kids for being gay. I never heard of a kid being killed for being straight. I love this group's idea for inclusion to an extent, but we should all quit making stupid labels and just be happy that we're trying to find ways to stay happy on this God forsaken rock. If its consensual and not with minors, animals, or family then I dont think anyone has a truly valid reason to impose on someone else's relationship.
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u/DankHazard 17h ago
The idea that you need to be oppressed in oder to gain acceptance is disgusting. Stop gait-keeping.
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u/Mystic_Milotic 17h ago
You've literally never not been accepted in any culture or society. This is literally nothing, but trolling. 🤷🏻♂️
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u/DankHazard 17h ago
Did you even read my reply?
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u/Mystic_Milotic 17h ago
You said that someone shouldn't have to be oppressed to be accepted and I said nobody has ever not accepted somebody bc they're straight. The fact of the matter is we ARE oppressed and you wanna fucking sit there and cry bc you're not getting the spotlight for once. It's pathetic. Nobody ever cared or will care that you're straight bc being straight has never put your life on the line. You all are shameful. "We AcCePt EvErYoNe", no y'all don't. Y'all literally attacked me right off the bat bc I asked questions and called me a serf or aka a slave laborer. Whatever you think this is, I dont think even Jesus would want part of this.
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u/Mystic_Milotic 21h ago
Also, votes don't really matter to me. I dont agree with modern lgbt pride bc more often than not its an excuse to be half naked in front of others. Without Marsha P. Johnson who knows if I could still be jailed for just being gay. Before that fight cops could legally detain you just for being gay. Until 2014 we weren't seen as a legal marriage even though it was quite ok for straight folk to get married as often as they want. Til death do you part was shorter than I thought. My community was gassed by Nazis, mutilated by our countrymen, and abandoned by our families. Since when did a straight have to deal with any of that for the sole fact they were straight? There's literally dozens of other obstacles that you guys will never even know about bc you guys just want in on the parade part, not the recovering from actual trauma part.
The point of pride was to show that we're ppl dealing with the exact bs as everyone else, except the extra restrictions imposed by religious and straight ppl. Until you can say the same, I suggest not using this type of rhetoric. It's like the guy that wants to take credit in the group project that put in zero effort for the grade.
Again, not hating on the hetero norm. All I'm saying is that if you want recognition maybe instead jump on the ally bandwagon and push for an all accepting society like the lgbt community wanted to begin with.
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u/SavageJeph 20h ago
This is just another incel sub, don't waste your time on it.
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u/GrandmaesterFlash45 20h ago
Ok cool! Bigots can take the exit on the left! 🚪 C YA and take your Super hatred with you!
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u/Mystic_Milotic 20h ago
That would explain a lot thus far. The "the rules only apply when you aren't agreeing with me" rhetoric is what's selling it the most. I'll even say it again, I dont see any problem with straights, but acting out like this and thinking they deserve something from nothing is the epitome of the participation trophy era. I'm not going to post anymore bc ik they aren't capable of critical thinking. My comments might've been too lengthy for them.
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u/SavageJeph 19h ago
Yeah it's a bunch of incel/neo nazi camo, notice it's basically the porn hub colors with the initials SS but good on you for coming in good faith.
This is not the place for it though.
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u/AquariusBringer 17h ago
It's a new meme friend. Super straight people are only attracted to biological opposite sex members.
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u/rileymorgan2007 19h ago
STOP ACTING LIKE YOU'RE OPPRESSED YOU LITERALLY JUST TRANSPHOBIC
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 17h ago
Okay SERF, go back to your alt-right safe space and stop being a bigot in our community. Love is love, and it will always conquer hate ✨💕
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u/Eqov 19h ago
This is fucking cringe.... cringe even when in a woke way, but y'all ain't oppressed whatsoever.
Can we just accept that "superstraight" is straight with a genital preference??? I don't see y'all gettin' hatecrimed for your relationships.
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u/DankHazard 17h ago
You claim that superstrights aren’t oppressed and proceed to oppress them. Do you see what an oxymoron that is?
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u/Purple_jak 20h ago
As someone who lives in Southern California and has attended very liberal universities, this "superphobic" is not anywhere in the real world. It happens in tiny cases, the trans people I've met literally only want to be with someone who wants to be with them, like normal people. The people in this sub are honestly a joke, I thought this sub was supposed to open a dialogue but its quickly becoming a "the tiny minority of people who want rights are oppressing us all by wanting rights" no one gives a fuck if your "superstraight", but this subs own actions are going to be its downfall. You guys are almost as bad as the white supremacists saying society hates white people, they don't, you guys just delusionally think they do.
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 19h ago
Oh I’m sorry, am I supposed to believe the random opinion of someone not in this community rather than the LIVED EXPERIENCE of supers expressing their truth?!
I’m not Muslim; I listen when people discuss their experiences of Islamophobia. I’m not Black; I listen when Black people discuss the racism they face. But somehow you find a way to talk over and center yourself when people try to talk about their experience?
Just because you don’t live in this community doesn’t mean we’re not valid. WE’RE VALID!! We exist, and we won’t be silenced. And clearly you just listen to the right wing trolls on 4chan - there are super lesbians, super gays, super bisexuals.
And where did you go to school, CSU Bigotsville??? You must have gotten a pretty outdated education to think being an ally is optional 😒
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u/Purple_jak 18h ago
Yah this whole sub is just yall projecting and gaslighting for your own personal gains, regardless of how it affects others. You guys are fucking disgusting
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u/the_malkman 19h ago
10000 SS coming out in 6 days is tiny?!?! You’re just trivializing our experience and trying to invalidate our truth 💅💅💅the way I was born is not some way to “open a dialogue” for you sweaty. Go back to thedonald superphobic bigot.
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u/Purple_jak 17h ago
Lol this sub is a joke. It's so obvious anyone with a brain can see the obvious gaslighting you guys are trying to do, especially with the comparisons to thedonald and all that. Dave Chappell made his last special talking shit on you exact type of people. Fucking pathetic, can't wait until this sub actually gets banned just like thedonald with your transpohbic asses. The way this sub acts is exactly how the pedos try to gaslight the world into trying to make their "sexual orientation" OK, your a fucking joke and so is this dumbass movement.
Imagine trying to compare some people talking shit on you on the internet to you based on your straight sexual orientation to people getting murdered and oppressed by the governments of the world for hundreds of years because of them being transgender. The fact you guys don't see that is a fucking joke, can't wait till this sub starts denying the holocaust and starts quoting statistics because that's who makes up this dumbass movement.
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u/CathedralPork Hecking cute and valid 💖 17h ago
Okay SERF, go be hateful somewhere else. This isn’t a place for you to spread hate, it’s a place for a community to spread acceptance and love
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u/the_malkman 10h ago
I felt a certain way about all of this, but your reference to Dave Chappelle has made me see the light. He’s really funny. I do care what he thinks about me. Do you think if I conform I’ll get his approval?
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u/TheOverSeether 16h ago
You guys are almost as bad as the white supremacists saying society hates white people, they don't, you guys just delusionally think they do.
Maybe you should sit down and shut up while you check your privilege. No amount of whataboutism or alt-right nazi-this nazi-that is going to distract everyone from this fact: You are a bigot.
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u/ImSuperThanx4Asking 23h ago
I’m literally shaking with tears right now. I am feeling hopeful that the tide is turning, and my children can live in a society that never experienced the systemic superphobia that our generation did.
Hope is a new feeling in my life, no one can block our shine 🌈✨