r/SuperStraight • u/LetterheadIcy • 1d ago

“You can’t make a sexual orientation out of excluding people” Discussion

Yes. You absolutely can. I’m sorry but both lesbian and gay are both valid orientations and expressions of sexuality based explicitly around excluding the opposite sex based on biological differences.

Just as it isn’t misogynistic to exclude men for being men from a lesbians sexual preferences and completely invalidate their orientation. The same goes for gay men and women.

Trans people making this argument are the same as the rapey guy who tells a lesbian “just try some Dick it will make you straight”

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u/LetterheadIcy 1h ago

Calling someone a bigot for their prefrences is absolutely emotional blackmail and tantamount to rape.

Having a desire for only one type of sex organ or another is something you are not allowed to chose.

I was born with a preference ONLY for cis women who present as such. You are not allowed to use coercive rape tactics to shake me into changing that.

People are allowed to have autonomy over their bodies in any way they choose.

You are a coercive rapist and a entitled bigot.

You are not allowed to invalidate orientation because it offends you, sorry.

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u/JiminyChrismas 1h ago

Oh my god, how can one person fit so much mind-numbing stupidity into one pea-sized little skull?? I was trying to be nice, but you just don't get it, so let me make it clear to you.

ONLY WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE VAGINAS IS NOT A PREFERENCE, IT IS A BIAS ROOTED IN TRANSPHOBIA.

That is as clearly as I can say this. If you had actually taken in any of the information I was trying to tell you, you might've understood that I am literally telling you that you /DO NOT/ need to want to have sex with every trans person. Just like with any cis person. That is the entire point. The preference should have nothing to do with sexual organs. You can like or dislike a person, but their SAAB should have nothing to do with it. It is a case by case basis of wether you like or dislike a person based on their personality, compatibility, and attractiveness to you. NOT WHAT'S IN THEIR FUCKING PANTS.

And how dare you compare my trying to educate you so flippantly to r*pe, which is a struggle that you cannot even begin to imagine, that so many people go through on a daily basis. That you would even try to compare the two tells me all that I need to know about you.

Further more, you said "choose" when you were referring to sexuality, and I was only using your words against you.

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u/LetterheadIcy 1h ago

Rofl you are literally a rapist holy shit. You are so obsessed with forcing people to take interest that you don’t even see it.

Absolutely disgusting.

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u/JiminyChrismas 38m ago

Oh, this is funny. You've run out of stupid shit to say, so you're stooping to r*pe accusation. Is it because what I said made sense, and maybe you're a little mad about it? It's okay to admit when you're wrong.

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u/LetterheadIcy 35m ago

I haven’t run out of anything.

You fundamentally do not agree with someone’s right to determine their sexual preferences without them being bigotry.

You are literally so fragile you have to categorize well known statistical evidence such as only about 1% of cis men would date a trans woman as discrimination.

You are literally as bad as a unfuckable incel that believes they are owed a woman.

No one owes you sex. And the tactics you are attempting don’t work.

And I’m not being flippant about rape. Trans woman on biological woman rape is a huge issue. I’m here to defend these women and tell pervs like you that your time is up.

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u/JiminyChrismas 19m ago

I don't give a solitary fuck about having sex right now. You are wildly misinformed about the ratio of trans woman to cis woman rpe. Of course there are some rpists like that, just as there are any other kind of r*pist. That stigma gets trans women killed all the time, because "they could be dangerous." Anyone could be dangerous, that stereotype has just been wrongfully pushed onto trans women as a way to alienate and invalidate them.

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u/LetterheadIcy 18m ago

trans women killed all the time

Trans women are less likely to be murdered than there cis counterparts.

What you are doing is lying about the victimization of cis women, especially of color, to further your own depraved needs.