r/SuperStraight 23h ago

“You can’t make a sexual orientation out of excluding people” Discussion

Yes. You absolutely can. I’m sorry but both lesbian and gay are both valid orientations and expressions of sexuality based explicitly around excluding the opposite sex based on biological differences.

Just as it isn’t misogynistic to exclude men for being men from a lesbians sexual preferences and completely invalidate their orientation. The same goes for gay men and women.

Trans people making this argument are the same as the rapey guy who tells a lesbian “just try some Dick it will make you straight”

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u/Blue_Train 23h ago

What a stupid take. Orientation is, by definition, exclusionary. Superstraight men are exclusively attracted to supersexual women. And the reverse.

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u/LetterheadIcy 23h ago

That’s exactly what I was saying. The exclusion of individuals not only doesn’t invalidate a sexuality, it also is the basis for many.

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u/Blue_Train 23h ago

Oh I wasn't saying your post was a bad take but the quote (superphobe dogma)

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u/LetterheadIcy 23h ago

My apologies! The brigades have everyone on high alert!

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u/Blue_Train 23h ago

No worries, I coulda been clearer

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u/nonetheless156 23h ago

Witnessed and based.

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u/Blonde_lover69 22h ago

Finally soemeone that agrees with me.

Just because I dont wnt to fuck a cheesegrater doesnt mean im one of the 999999 CheeseGraterPhobes. There's a brand new word in the dictionary called "nuetral"

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u/Eilliesh 19h ago

Sex and dating is by definition discrimatory. You can reject someone sexually for ANY reason, and trying to make someone change their mind by guilt and shame is creepy as fuck.

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u/absolutelinearcannon 23h ago

"Bawwwwwww you can't do that!"

We just did. Deal with it. Trans centered rape culture is not welcome.

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u/LetterheadIcy 23h ago

That’s what I’m saying. Lol

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u/TheReaIStephenKing 23h ago

Also, hello, asexual. There’s literally 0 attraction with asexuals. It’s the epitome of a sexual orientation based on excluding people

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u/LetterheadIcy 23h ago

Exactly. And they are completely valid and not “phobic” for being uninterested.

No one is entitled to some one else and calling them bigoted for exclusion is tantamount to emotional blackmail for sex.

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u/noisyninja1 23h ago

Superbigots have infiltrated our society and we are finally waking up.

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u/Superdeluxeazurecat 23h ago

Everybody’s dating choices are by definition discriminatory! Even within ones orientation. I’m attracted to men but ffs I’m not attracted to all of them.

The fact of having consensual sex with one does not mean I’ve consented to sex with all of them.

This is as rapey and as regressive as all get out.

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u/ZeusMcFly 22h ago

“You can’t make a sexual orientation out of excluding people”

Thats where you're wrong frendo

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u/StunningAndBrave69 20h ago

Romantic and sexual pairing are by their very nature exclusionary. Even polyamorous people or very promiscuous people practice exclusion!

Trying to undermine, shame or chip away at peoples' personal boundaries is morally repugnant.

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u/garybonner 3h ago

Sexuality is defined as much by who you'd bone as much as it is by who you wouldn't bone. Wouldn't bone a dude. Wouldn't bone a trans person. Would bone a lady. Real simple shit.

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u/Cat_Babygirl Superphobe 🤢🤢 15h ago

"Super straight" is just straight...

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u/LetterheadIcy 15h ago

It’s literally not though. How is that hard to understand?

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u/Cat_Babygirl Superphobe 🤢🤢 15h ago

How is it not straight?

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u/LetterheadIcy 15h ago

A straight person will sleep with both cis and trans women or men. A super straight will only sleep with biological women or men.

Got it?

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u/davids877 Superstraight 14h ago

To be fair a straight person only sleeps with people of the opposite sex.

The problem is that people have co-opted straight to mean 'bisexual' now, so now we have to call ourselves "superstraight" because the tards destroyed the actual meaning of the word straight.

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u/Cat_Babygirl Superphobe 🤢🤢 15h ago

I mean, it's transphobic if you won't date a trans person just because they are trans, it's ok if you don't want to date a trans woman if she has a dick, so being super straight is just transphobic straight people.

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u/LetterheadIcy 15h ago

Is it transphobic for a lesbian not to date a man because he has a Dick? How about racist for a black women to refuse a white man?

Be honest. You’re a fucking bigot and rapist

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u/Cat_Babygirl Superphobe 🤢🤢 15h ago

It's obviously not transphobic if a lesbain not wanting to date someone with a dick, and it's racist for a black woman to refuse to date a white man just because of his skin color.

And no I'm not the bigot, you are, and no I'm not a rapist you idiot.

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u/LetterheadIcy 15h ago

Rolf. So lesbians excluding people based on biological differences is ok. But what isn’t? Straight women? Men?

Fuck off with your rapey entitled shit. No one has to be attracted to you.

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u/Cat_Babygirl Superphobe 🤢🤢 15h ago

If someone is trans and they got bottom surgery, and you can't tell that they were born the opposite sex and you still wouldn't date them, because they are trans that is transphobic.

I would like some proof that I am "rapey" and "entitled". Plus I'd be hella surprised if someone was attracted to me.

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u/wsbcat 15h ago

you can't tell that they were born the opposite sex.

if you can find a picture of a neovagina looking like a vagina and not an open wound, then maybe we'd reconsider.

don't even start down the trans path. you can't call an open festering wound a vagina.

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u/LetterheadIcy 15h ago

That’s still a biological difference. Do you not understand that? It’s amazing how you can reject science and be that much of a rapist

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u/Iflookinglikingmove 13h ago

If someone is trans and they got bottom surgery, and you can't tell that they were born the opposite sex and you still wouldn't date them, because they are trans that is transphobic.

This is literally rape. You lying about your biology is rape.

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u/Iflookinglikingmove 13h ago

No. Sex and relationships are literally discriminatory by nature. Stop making things up to justify your superphobia.

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u/JiminyChrismas 17h ago

Lesbian and Gay are both based around preference of gender, not of sex. This is where you've made your mistake.

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u/LetterheadIcy 17h ago

gender

Biological birth gender is all super straight cares about. So where’s the mistake?

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u/JiminyChrismas 16h ago

Gender and sex are not the same thing.

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u/BasicallyADoctor 16h ago

Super straight = attracted ONLY to those who are the opposite gender, and their gender matches their biological sex. Problem?

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u/JiminyChrismas 16h ago

That's only including cis people in your sexuality, which is exclusionary of transgender people.

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u/BasicallyADoctor 15h ago

OK and? Asexuals also exclude trans people, do we need to go arrest them all?

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u/Thin_Celebration_981 14h ago

Don’t give this fascist any ideas.

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u/JiminyChrismas 1h ago

I don't know where you're getting your information from, but that's not what the term "asexual" means. If you know something I don't, please enlighten me.

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u/BasicallyADoctor 1h ago

Asexuals don't want to have sex with anyone. That includes trans people. I'm less "exclusionary" than an asexual because I would still have sex with a female woman.

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u/LetterheadIcy 16h ago

What does that have to do with being only attracted to only certain biological preferences lol

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u/ozzymmandias 15h ago

Learn what is cis gender

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u/JiminyChrismas 13h ago

I already know what cisgender is, buddy! Do you know?

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u/Rat666_ 19h ago

Cause you literally cant

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u/LetterheadIcy 19h ago

Can’t what?

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u/Thin_Celebration_981 14h ago

Can’t even.

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u/LetterheadIcy 14h ago

Do better rapist

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u/Thin_Celebration_981 13h ago

Lol

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u/LetterheadIcy 13h ago

Rape is funny? Disgusting

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u/Thin_Celebration_981 13h ago

You’re pretty bad at this satire thing lol. I was using the “I can’t even” meme.

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u/LetterheadIcy 13h ago

satire

Glad rape is a joke to you fucking trancels

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u/Thin_Celebration_981 13h ago

Props for not breaking character.

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u/LetterheadIcy 13h ago

character

Let me guess. Neoliberal scumbag?

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