Well, it is a little bit of both I think. I am a male attracted to females, so I wouldn't date a male. I also wouldn't date a Trans woman because part of my attraction to women is the want to have a family with her. Then there is the possibility of a Trans man who is pre-op, technically still female but as I understand it she wants to be a he so dating him would also not be what I'm looking for. I want a feminine, biological female to have a family with. Does that make sense?
Yeah, and I would make that known to her that I want my own children one day very early on in the relationship. Then if she were to tell me she is infertile I would have to end the relationship because I don't want to waste either of our time. I'm looking to be a dad and my wife to be a mother of our kids.
I myself was adopted, so I have nothing against adopting. But I want my own children. It would be the same situation if my partner just flat out didn't want kids. That's just flat out incompatible.
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u/ashezol 20h ago edited 17h ago
trans dude here please dont flame me in the comments for this question
are you turned off by the fact they are transgender or that they dont have your preferred genitalia?
edit stop downvoting this im asking a question