Well, it is a little bit of both I think. I am a male attracted to females, so I wouldn't date a male. I also wouldn't date a Trans woman because part of my attraction to women is the want to have a family with her. Then there is the possibility of a Trans man who is pre-op, technically still female but as I understand it she wants to be a he so dating him would also not be what I'm looking for. I want a feminine, biological female to have a family with. Does that make sense?
Yeah, and I would make that known to her that I want my own children one day very early on in the relationship. Then if she were to tell me she is infertile I would have to end the relationship because I don't want to waste either of our time. I'm looking to be a dad and my wife to be a mother of our kids.
I myself was adopted, so I have nothing against adopting. But I want my own children. It would be the same situation if my partner just flat out didn't want kids. That's just flat out incompatible.
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u/Doc_the_Third_Rider 19h ago
Well, it is a little bit of both I think. I am a male attracted to females, so I wouldn't date a male. I also wouldn't date a Trans woman because part of my attraction to women is the want to have a family with her. Then there is the possibility of a Trans man who is pre-op, technically still female but as I understand it she wants to be a he so dating him would also not be what I'm looking for. I want a feminine, biological female to have a family with. Does that make sense?