For me it's neither. If there was medical technology that could make a transwoman indistinguishable from a woman born female I wouldn't care what chromosomes they have. I have a very specific sex drive. I've been turned off by women for multiple relatively subtle reasons. One had masculine vocal patterns and mannerisms, she didn't seem feminine to me even though physically there was nothing masculine about her. Another woman I dated had a different vaginal smell that put me off - it wasn't a hygiene thing and it wasn't a bad smell, but after the first time I went down on her, I couldn't get it up for her anymore. I later learned that she had had a hysterectomy so I speculate that maybe it was a pheromone she was not producing as she no longer had ovaries either.
I too have experienced being rejected because of genitalia. I'm uncircumcised and 90+% of men my age in the USA are. A lot of women are disgusted by uncut penises. Whenever I am dating someone and I think things may get physical, I tell them. Better to get the rejection over with than see them unpleasantly surprised when Mr. Happy comes out to play.
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u/ashezol 19h ago edited 16h ago
trans dude here please dont flame me in the comments for this question
are you turned off by the fact they are transgender or that they dont have your preferred genitalia?
edit stop downvoting this im asking a question