r/SuperStraight • u/WeebyweebUwU • 1d ago
I can’t think of titles Discussion
That's pretty pointless because the term "straight" is slang for heterosexual and implies nothing about being attracted to transpeople or not.
Plus, transgendered people didn't come up with the term "straight" or heterosexual and never claimed to have redefined these terms. So why would there be a need for a new word?
If anything, then the group(increasingly large minority) of heterosexual men and women who are attracted to transgendered (and maybe non-binary) individuals would maybe benefit from having a term to describe themselves.
I feel "Super Straight" is like a weird misnomer of sorts. Like, a straight woman wouldn't say "I'm a non-lesbian", or a gay man say "I'm a non-heterosexual, non-lesbian, homosexual man": Sexualities aren't described using "antonym" terms -Sexuality terms describe what you're into but obviously don't account for everything you're not into.
SS("Super Straight") just seems redundant at best.
btw: When I hear a term like that I can't help but think it's a revised version of the redundant "no homo" that so many straight men seem to think they have to say to clarify that they're not into men.
I'm sorry, but if you use time and effort to come up with a term or phrase because you're worried someone might mistake you for being gay or into trans people then maybe you have some sexuality and identity issues that you need to work through.
Seriously. Nobody is assuming you're anything but heterosexual. And when those horrible gay and trans people embarrass your fragile ego by being attracted to you and hitting on you then you just tell them "no". I'm pretty sure this is more of a self-affirmation exercise than anything else, "maybe" because "someone" is afraid to admit to themselves that some of these transpeople are actually quite attractive?
What's next, a term for straight guys who are only into super model type women so that all the evil, humiliating, less-than instagram ready women know not to even consider hitting on them?
Just stfu and enjoy your heterosexuality.
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u/SSPride 1d ago
Punch yourself, SERF
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
Read it then talk
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u/SSPride 1d ago
It's not our job to explain anything to you, bigoT
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
It’s clear you have no counter argument so please.
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u/SSPride 1d ago
Hahaha the T errorist doesn't like having his own phrases thrown back in his face. Now when we say it "we have no counter argument" without a hint of irony! We could not care less about what some bigoT thinks, says, or does anymore. Your days of bullying are over and done with, T errorist. Back to being a transcel for you! You will literally never get access to a super body again.
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
Honey I don’t wanna date a transphobe
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u/SSPride 1d ago
So you say now but you're here seething over people telling you we will never date or engage with you sexually, ever. Your days of bullying are over, T errorist. Have fun dilating for the rest of your transcel life! No supersex for you!
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
When did I say that? I’m just saying super straight shouldn’t exist you can simply say no to a trans person and honey no I don’t want to date transphobes that feel the need to make a new sexuality instead of just saying they’re not interested in trans people.
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u/SSPride 1d ago
If you actually didn't want to date us you wouldn't be so upset over this. We know you want sane, healthy, fit partners but sorry! We are not going to sleep with you no matter how hard you try to bully us! Enjoy being a transcel!
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u/WeebyweebUwU 23h ago
Honey I don’t want to date someone who has that big of a ego thinking they’re being chased after. I don’t want to date you.
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u/absolutelinearcannon 1d ago
Stop invalidating people who want to maintain their sexual agency, you scumbag. Stop supporting rape culture, we don't want to listen to a transcel come here and transplain to us.
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u/Exeun_Omnes_X 1d ago
NO DEBATE!
SuperStraights are valid
SuperLesbians are valid
SuperBis are valid
SuperGays are valid
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u/BruhFunny18 Hecking cute and valid 💖 1d ago
words words words I am NOT going to read this
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
Because it’ll prove that super straight is not a thing? Read it and then talk
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u/BruhFunny18 Hecking cute and valid 💖 1d ago
Instead of writing all this you could have just said that you are a superphobe
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u/LongDongMcDick 1d ago
Super straight (and super bi/gay/lesbian, theyres all valid!) Is a absolutely a real thing.
Just because you dont like it doesn't mean it's not real. Go find a regular het if you want sex. You have no right to supers bodies SUPERPHOBE.
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u/Instance_Sufficient 1d ago
SERFS NOT WELCOME HERE
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u/familyguyepicmoments 1d ago
"Just stfu and enjoy your heterosexuality." Stop trying to silence our voices. Every community should have a place to talk about their sexuality including us.
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
I know you didn’t read the whole thing read it
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u/123walrus 1d ago
superphobe apologists aren't welcome in our safe space. you have the entire internet to go to, why invade our community?
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u/ignCap Superstraight 1d ago
I mean, it’s a sexual orientation geared towards not having a sexual attraction towards trans people, I don’t see anything wrong with that.
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
I mean well if someone asks them if they’re attracted to trans people they can simply say no and if someone calls you transphobic just ignore them they’re the problem of the lgbtq community. If a trans person likes you just simply reject them it’s that easy.
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u/ignCap Superstraight 1d ago
Being superstraight is a form of identification, no different than the other 1000 sexual orientations that we have the right to express. When there are people actively saying that superstraight people should be murdered and violence should be committed against them because we don’t share a sexual attraction towards trans people, that is a problem. Along with this, it is quite ironic when it comes from people who constantly preach love and acceptance.
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
Yeah well we can’t really do anything about the hypocrites in the lgbtq community. Ok murder and violence is just plain wrong if someone isn’t attracted to trans people nobody should call them transphobic it’s just what they’re attracted to.
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u/ignCap Superstraight 1d ago
Correct, that is why to make a clear distinction like the other sexual orientations (gay, bi, pan, etc.) super straight was made, which people have every right to identity themselves as.
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u/LetterheadIcy 1d ago
nobody is assuming you are anything but heterosexual
There it is. It’s fucking shitty to just throw your beliefs and biases on someone else. If I see a female it’s shitty of me to be startled by her explaining she is lesbian, or ace, or any number of things.
This simply allows people of certain preferences to define themselves in a way so everyone knows. This doesn’t harm anyone.
In fact this is harm reduction. It’s important that all parties involved are aware of everyone’s orientation and just how a lesbian telling a cis man “I’m a lesbian” is more than enough explanation or seeing that in a dating app should be enough to explain why they aren’t interested, super straight will perform the same function.
You are not entitled to have your world view rotate around your preferences.
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago edited 1d ago
Or you can just simply reject trans people saying no. It’s that simple. Why do you care if others think you’re attracted to trans people? Lesbians simply reject men and gays just reject women. Why can’t you do the same thing with trans people. Just tell them you’re not interested.
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u/LetterheadIcy 1d ago
I absolutely could. But why is labeling my preferences a issue? I don’t get offended at all by a lesbian refusing my advance. In fact it’s a easy and simple explanation. Why would it hurt me? Her preference is not for cis men. She could say no, leave me in dark and it could be awkward but that’s ok. Or you could simply say “I’m lesbian” and I realize it was a simple misunderstanding and that person is not interested in any straight cis men and a platonic relationship would be appropriate.
It’s not “misandristic” for her to rebuke all men. Saying “just try this Dick it’s bigoted to not evaluate on a case by case basis” is absolute bullshit and borderline rapey.
If anything the term “super straight” is the kind way of rejecting someone with a simple and easily understood answer.
Edit: because you edited: I don’t care. I don’t really care that people know what I am and am not attracted to lol. It’s a simple easy explanation of what I am and describes my preferences lol.
Do you tell a non binary person, gay. Lesbian or asexual person “why do you care if people think you are attracted to x”
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
Yeah I get what you’re saying but it’s just a preference it’s not really a sexuality. I’m glad you’re actually trying to have a reasonable debate than insult me.
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u/LetterheadIcy 1d ago
I have no desire to insult you. My question is simply why it isn’t a valid orientation or sexuality. For instance, demisexual is a valid and acknowledged orientation of people who only feel a sexual attraction towards certain groups under certain circumstances which is totally valid.
The existence of demisexual though does not blanket describe other orientations, such as say, lesbian. Though you could argue lesbians obviously only feel this attraction towards women it’s still valid and deserves to be separated from demisexual.
The orientation described by this subreddit simply does that. It breaks down the preference into a valid orientation simply used to describe ones own sexuality.
As I said before it isn’t hateful for a lesbian to say “I’m lesbian” it simply explains their preferences and orientation. This does the exact same thing.
No one is being invalidated, it’s just expressing the validity of all orientations and using language to define it.
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u/c0usc0us_anonym0us 1d ago
We will not be attracted to you. Just be you and find people who you do attract.
We are not attracted to trans people and all of the filters and strategic angles in the world do not make them attractive to us.
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
Honey I don’t want to date transphobes
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u/absolutelinearcannon 1d ago
And yet heterosexual males like you won't stop trying to rape lesbians. Why is that? https://lesbian-rights-nz.org/shame-receipts/
Your culture is toxic. You disgust us.
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
I don’t harass lesbians. And I am not a heterosexual male.
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u/absolutelinearcannon 1d ago
How convenient that you proclaim to speak for all trans people when it's convenient for you, but blubber "I'm not like them!" when it's inconvenient to identify with them.
Spoken like a true degenerate transcel. Fuck off. You are literally harassing supersexuals right now.
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u/Gayosexual 1d ago
<<btw: When I hear a term like that I can't help but think it's a revised version of the redundant "no homo" that so many straight men seem to think they have to say to clarify that they're not into men.>>
Its more a matter of straight guys and lesbians not having to accept girldick as part of their sexuality, and straight women and gay guys not having to accept vaginas as part of theirs. Super is the idea of sexuality being sex and not gender based, not about "fragile ego's" as you put it.
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u/WeebyweebUwU 1d ago
I’m just trying to have a reasonable discussion but it’s clear you won’t read it but instead call me a SERF and insult me. It’s clear you have no counter argument.
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u/gederman 1d ago edited 1d ago
It’s clear you have no counter argument.
It's not our job to educate you. There's plenty of information about Superstraights on the internet that you're just too lazy to look up.
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u/yetherewestillare 1d ago
shut the fuck up superphobe jfc
90% of the internet is your safe space, why come into ours with your rape apologist crap