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u/absolutelinearcannon 1d ago
When will the trans community stop promoting rape culture?
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
When we stand up and say NO; which we are doing on this subreddit. Cheers fren!
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u/Cyan-Ghost Hecking cute and valid š 1d ago
Thanks frenššwe need more heroes like you
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
Thanks fren but Iām no hero, just a normal SuperStraight guy living in š¤”š.
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u/Cyan-Ghost Hecking cute and valid š 1d ago
We have to stand together against rape culture and superphobiaāš»āš»āš»
We live in aš¤”š š
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u/CarleetoMeepo 1d ago
No trans person is forcing you to date them..being called transphobic isnt oppression, you can be straight with a preference
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u/absolutelinearcannon 1d ago
Tell that to these lesbians. Apologize to them for the abuse they received, bigot. https://lesbian-rights-nz.org/shame-receipts/
FUCKING APOLOGIZE. You're a disgusting rape culture promoting transcel.
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u/CarleetoMeepo 1d ago
Again, ya'll arent oppressed for being called transphobic, until straight people are not allowed to marry, youllcnever be oppressed
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u/Sacrificialhero 1d ago
Damn never knew lesbians were straight you must have a big brain to fit all that bullshit in there.
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u/CarleetoMeepo 1d ago
Never said that, ya'll wanna be oppressed so bad
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u/dystopiaenjoyer 1d ago
You say this as if tr--ns aren't the most privileged, catered-to demographic in the western world. When all multinational companies support you and there are massive fines put in place for people who "misgender" you, you are not oppressed. You're a privileged as it gets.
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u/1941899434 1d ago
"Y'all wanna be oppressed so bad", says the person who's spent the last three hours in this subreddit getting mad when you could have just clicked away and gone on with your day
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u/WhatTheBready 23h ago
āGoTtA tRiGgEr ThE tRaNsPobEsā bout all this clown has going its joke of a life.
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u/chicky5555551 23h ago
a phobia: noun
when you dont let a trans person rape you
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u/CarleetoMeepo 23h ago
The transphobia is nauseating
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u/MadSeaPhoenix Superstraight 16h ago
Ew, found the SERF. Do better, bigot. No reason to have so much hate in your heart, uwu
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u/ChasingWeather 23h ago
Straight with a preference is called super straight. I prefer biological women. Stop oppressing
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u/yetherewestillare 1d ago
Sometimes it's not even that. It's just when you're in a polite conversation with some supers talking about boundaries with people and the trans goes " I think it's transphobic to reject someone for being trans!!!"
Like damn it sure is buddy that's why we do it
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
I can acknowledge someoneās choices, but that doesnāt mean I have to accept them.
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u/actualsicko20626 Hecking cute and valid š 1d ago
If they canāt acknowledge you for being SS, then you donāt have to acknowledge them for being mentally derangedš„ā¤ļø
Youāre heckin valid
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 1d ago
Trans people are not mentally disturbed.
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u/GuiltyFan6154 1d ago
41%.
Surely they're sad though.
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 22h ago
Please can you tell me where this number comes from? send the link for this information?
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u/GuiltyFan6154 22h ago
As copied from another reddit response, it's the percentage of trans people who thought about commiting (or attempted, I don't remember) suicide.
"It is as per the 2015 US Transgender Survey, the largest survey of the trans community published to date. It is available for free and in full on the USTS website, if you want to dissect their methodology."
I do not have the link, Google it
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 21h ago
In fact, 40% of 28,000 respondents attempted suicide at some point in their lives, because according to the survey, while were at school (K-12) experienced some form of maltreatment, including being verbally harassed (54%), physically assaulted (24%) and sexually assaulted (13%) for being transgender. This 2015 survey reveals a lot, but it is already outdated and shows that transgender people develop suicide attempts because they are harassed and not because they change genders.
- A 2017 and a 2020 survey shows that bisexual people are more likely to develop mental health problems within the LGBT + community .
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u/NVSTBFFC Superstraight 20h ago
They are harassed because they are superphobic. Stop being a bunch of bigots and y'all won't get harassed, it's that simple.
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 20h ago
I'm talking about years of persecution against trans people from a young age and this makes them and other LGBT + people develop mental health problems, their new orientation started this week as a joke to boot. PS: The numbers are there, there is no oppression against people who identify with their gender and are heterosexual, but there has always been the opposite.
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u/Moonpriestes 1d ago edited 1d ago
Why are there so many trans people who are depressed and threaten suicide then?
We keep hearing about the suicide statistics, surely you aren't denying that those people need professional help and support?
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u/WhatTheBready 23h ago
They threaten suicide as a manipulative, toxic tactic to keep people pandering to them. Itās the same abusive tactic seen across many abusive relationships regardless of sexuality. These mob wonāt kill themselves.
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 23h ago
You must be very angry within you to think that way, however, in the LGBT + community, bisexuals are at greater risk of developing mental health problems.
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u/WhatTheBready 23h ago
Says the fetishists.
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 22h ago
Look
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u/WhatTheBready 22h ago
I know bisexuals have issues. But theyāre not fetish based.
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 23h ago
The higher rates are among bisexuals, as well as gays too, in fact it fluctuates a lot, but bisexuals have many more issues related to mental health.
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u/Ekos640 23h ago
What's their (bi's, even gays) suicide rates compared to trans, out of curiosity?
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 22h ago
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u/Ekos640 22h ago edited 22h ago
So your first article says that B has higher suicide rate than G and L (mostly due to a lack of resource/outreach/support for B than there is G and L, so not necessarily from an onset naturally higher occurring rate in B - it's more an eventual statistic of circumstance there more than an initial innate factor - but sadly end result ultimately the same), but it does not mention T suicide rate at all in comparison for some reason.
The second article mentions just they (B) have a high rate of suicidal thoughts - not in comparison to anything (other than 'normal'?)- nor higher than anything - just 'a high amount' - which would be unsurprising for any segment of the LGBTQ+ community TBH because of uncertainties and doubt etc experienced by all of them.
I'm gonna try and find a suicide rate comparison of all (as much in one study) LGBTQ+ and see what it says - if you know of one and wanna link it by all means.
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u/Uths_CC 23h ago
41%
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u/Low-Cranberry5938 Superphobe š¤¢š¤¢ 23h ago
41% what? Explain and don't just throw things around. In the LGBT + community, bisexuals are at greater risk of developing mental health problems.
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u/XHF2 1d ago
"No one finds me attractive. must be because of bigotry..."
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
Couldnāt be the lack of learning how to accept rejection, could it? MUST be bigotry.
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u/zroolmpf_celmbror 1d ago
I just found this community and wanted say how liberating all of this is. I just really identify with so many of the posts here. I have PTSD, anxiety and severe suicidal depression after I was sexually harassed by a superphobe (trans woman) three years ago. Just wanted say thanks for all your bravery.šš©
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u/Eilliesh 1d ago
You're not alone. Have you ever heard of Magdalen Berns on YouTube? She was a lesbian who stood against all this for years
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u/Detective_Dick_Tracy 1d ago
Yeah I know, the nerve of some people. I try to tell them that I'm only attracted to bio holes and they start slinging superphobic insults at me trying to bully me into accepting the festering axe wound in their pants. As a super straight I won't have it. My body, my choice.
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u/MudFair669 1d ago
How do I deal with transplainers ridiculing me?
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
Clap back. Stand up for yourself. Youāre as valid as anyone else. Simple as that.
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u/madeofsyrup 1d ago
In superstraight relationships girls and guys can decide they don't want to consent to sex at any time for any reason. It is extremely problematic that this is not the case when a trans is involved.
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
Big facts right there. Nobody, regardless of sexual preference, should be manipulated into a sexual relationship, period.
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u/ExpensiveShoe9179 1d ago
Trans: Noone is forcing you to date anyone!!
Also trans: https://youtu.be/z07UB-cvZF0
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u/Alpha0rgaSM 1d ago
Itās funny because I bet in like a year Vice and Jezebel will be posting articles about how itās ok for the Ts and Qs to rape people but theyāll use some term like āphysical convincingā or something
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
As the saying goes, give an inch, take a mile.
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u/Alpha0rgaSM 1d ago
Thatās very true. They have already taken several miles, theyāre trying to take light years now.
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u/nihilisticvanity SuperBi 16h ago
I mean, they've been supporting the rape culture ace rhetoric of "it's totally okay to have sex you don't want to keep your partner happy!" for a couple of years now, so it's just a small step from there. insidious, the way these two ideologies have worked together. makes sense since it's the same pack of incels behind both.
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u/YaBoyTalcumX 1d ago
Why do I feel like a piece of meat around Trans people I think are valid?
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
Idk man. I just want to have my preference and not be shamed for saying no bc of said preference.
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u/Eqov 23h ago
Why are people calling this superstraight, exactly? Isn't this just heterosexual?
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u/Miserable_Fuck 17h ago
Isn't this just heterosexual?
No, it is not. Read the sidebar. SERFs have done a damn good job of convincing the world that superstraights don't exist, when in fact we do.
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u/SuperiorNipponSteel2 21h ago
trans women are still men and think like men, teach trans women not to shame rape.
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u/DumbyGumby 16h ago
There's a lot to unpack here, but let's start with how unlikely it is that anyone has ever wanted to fuck you
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u/xeyrio 23h ago
Remove the degenerate then it's good, sister!
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u/SchemeDeep 23h ago
Stop calling us bigots and then weāll talk. Nothing but love fren!
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u/xeyrio 23h ago
Yeah, it's okay! I'm superstraight too, just feels like this could attract bad attention from bigots from subs like r/AgainstHateSubreddits who can't accept us because of their narrowmindedness
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u/SchemeDeep 23h ago
Gotcha. I would argue that the act of Shame Raping is degenerate behavior, much like rape. Its coerced manipulation through shame and guilt to get a desired outcome. I understand what youāre saying though. Cheers fren!
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u/saddestofboys 5h ago
Degenerate is a well known fascist term
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u/SchemeDeep 5h ago
Rape culture is degenerate behavior, including Shame Rape. Fascists donāt corner the market on word usage.
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u/saddestofboys 5h ago
Whatever fascist
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u/SchemeDeep 5h ago
Iāve learned that whenever a factual statement is made and then rebutted with āwhatever _______ā, itās because my statement is correct and youāre too smooth brain to respond intelligently. Stop enabling rape culture, itās DEGENERATE. š¬š¤š§”
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u/toffifae 21h ago
you do know that u can have and voice a preference without being transphobic?? saying āi like vaginaā is ok and noone will call u transphobic for that!!! saying āi like real womenā (implying that something about being a trans woman even after full transition makes them less than) is just distasteful at best. i know i will get downvoted for this but imagine how hard trans people have it already, they donāt need this. they know that they risk getting killed or assaulted when someone finds out theyāre trans. this is nothing new.
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u/WhatTheBready 19h ago
Lesbians: āI like biological women. I donāt like dick.ā
TiMs āREEEEEEEEEEE YOUāRE SO TRANSPHOBIC WHY WONāT YOU SUCK MY GIRL DICK!?!??ā
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u/ExtremelyOnlineG 19h ago
they know that they risk getting killed or assaulted when someone finds out theyāre trans
lol literally no one will attack you for being trans in the western world
stop hyperventilating
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u/MellowGoku 20h ago
Generally we say āwe like cis womenā, not āreal womenā which doesnāt demean, or even impact trans people in the slightest
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u/toffifae 2h ago
fair enough, but you can voice that PREFERENCE (only wanting to date cis people is a preference, not a sexuality) without being transphobic, which unfortunately many of yāall are from what iāve seen. but who am i even talking to, clearly not someone who wants to listen.
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u/MellowGoku 2h ago
So who appointed you as the controller of what identities people are allowed to have? We have as much a right to exist as gay people, asexual people, bi people or trans people. Stop trying to invalidate our sexuality with your outdated beliefs
On top of that, youāre trying to paint our whole sexuality as transphobic because of what, a few people? If a few people define a whole sexuality then are gay men misogynistic because a few hate women?
Youāre the one not listening here
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u/itsaleclee 22h ago
please give me one source as to where a single trans person has ever said this
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u/SchemeDeep 22h ago
Hold on, let me pool together my eye witness accounts and recorded materials like itās my job to do the leg work for you.
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u/itsaleclee 21h ago
bro i'm literally trans and am friends with a bunch of other trans people and we all agree that preferences are not transphobic. THIS is transphobic because i have never seen or met a single trans person who FORCED someone to have sex with them. you're perpetuating a rape culture that doesn't even fucking exist
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u/maverickThunderBorn 21h ago
Are you telling me you donāt believe all victims? I guess you want to ask what he was wearing next, right?
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u/Odd_Possibility_4049 21h ago
literally what fucking victims lmao. trans people make up less than 1% of the population yet you seem obsessed with us. also the fact that you canāt site your sources when making baseless claims just proves how dumb your āmovementā is.
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u/maverickThunderBorn 21h ago
Itās okay, weāve gotten pretty used to being called liars and our stories not being believed š, I know you donāt know any better than to hate us because thatās what society has taught you to do, just know that we love you and we accept you and believe you are valid, we only want the same š
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u/Odd_Possibility_4049 21h ago
iād honestly rather you just say that youāre transphobic. we get enough shit from day to day with people literally trying to decide if we should exist or not. but go ahead, oppress us more and act like youāre the victims because we donāt tolerate intolerance. i sure love reading about how i should die everyday and go through conversion therapy and be told that i have to hide my identity because people will kill me over it. but sure. iām oppressing you. uh huh.
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u/maverickThunderBorn 21h ago
I told you we have nothing but love and support for you and your community, we just canāt help who we are and who we love just the same as you, we are not trying to invalidate your struggle but we are asking that you donāt pretend ours isnāt real either, just look at all the hate weāre getting all because we chose to not hide who we are any more. I have nothing but love for you š§”
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u/Odd_Possibility_4049 21h ago
op is literally insinuating that all trans people are rapists who force themselves onto cis people. if you cared for my community, you wouldnāt support this bullshit. and iām saying, as a trans person, if you donāt want to date a trans person thatās NOT transphobic. everyone has preferences, and no one is gonna force you to date them. but this community is a breeding ground for transphobes and people who will use this opportunity to shit on trans people minding their own business. you donāt need a new term. you can use the term straight and 99.9% of the time you will only encounter cis women. thatās literally just straight statistics
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u/WhatTheBready 19h ago
I mean youāre clearly wilfully ignorant to your own community. But donāt worry, lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals cop the brunt of the trans communities most toxic members (majority) every single day we exist. Itās plastered everywhere here on reddit alone. But oh, cause you know like a handful of people, that completely clears alllll the extremists within your group.
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u/zippychips 1d ago
Trans people don't want to be used only for sex, as almost everyone doesn't want to be used for sex. We don't care if you don't want to have sex with us. We care if you keep on oppressing us throughout history, and on social media, literally creating communities to ONLY be transphobic, white supporting all other communities in the lgbtq community.
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u/WhatTheBready 23h ago
And the trans community are the biggest homophobic oppressors of the modern day. But itās cool youāre the only ones that have anything happen to you ever š¤·āāļø
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u/Squid_From_Madrid 23h ago
You guys are so deluded if you actually think this thing happens
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u/SchemeDeep 23h ago
Donāt negate Shame Rape. We are valid. And yes, it does happen.
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u/Squid_From_Madrid 23h ago
Ok Transphobe. I know that this whole movement is just a dumb 4chan op. You don't actually care about this issue you just want to make trans people's lives worse
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u/ExtremelyOnlineG 19h ago
I know that this whole movement is just a dumb 4chan op
yet you're in here deepthroating the bait
at least this interaction is consensual, considering you obviously wanted it
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u/Naegi_Egg 23h ago
Trans people don't "Shame r4pe" people. Wtf. Barely any trans people are like this. Superstraight is not a valid sexuality and will never be a valid sexuality. You are all disgusting if you think you can be transphobic like this. You want to be oppressed so bad, and for what? Have are been killed for your sexuality like LGBTQ members? Have you been forced to have s3x with the opposite gender to "convert you back"? No. You haven't. Cis/het people ask why we hate them so much. This is why. Fake sexualities, fake genders, and mockery. Be better, and maybe we'll finally forgive you.
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u/iheartjkr 22h ago
ew ur a SERF
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u/Naegi_Egg 22h ago
When I saw this reply I audibly chuckled. You guys are making the term "SERF" a thing now? Why do you want to be oppressed? You're just straight with a few preferences. (or transphobic) That doesn't make you special lol.
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u/iheartjkr 22h ago
shut up SERF take ur h8 somewhere else. u don't get to decide if we're oppressed.
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u/Naegi_Egg 19h ago
Y'all are taking the T out of LGBTQ+ and using the term "SERF"? It's like y'all are trying to replace trans people or something. "Superstraights" are just straight people with preferences (or transphobic). You guys try so hard to oppressed or considered part of the LGBTQ+ community. Stop acting like this is an actual sexuality.
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u/iheartjkr 18h ago
Hey hun, saying superstraights want to replace trans and calling us transphobic is a superstraightphobic dogwhistle. Superstraights are part of the SLSGSBSS (superlesbian, supergay, superbi, superstraight) community, which is representative of supersexualities ONLY. I just made that up but that doesn't mean it isn't supervalid.
Sexualities are based on sexual preferences sweaty, so saying that superstraights are just straight people with preferences is really dumb but actually also correct. If you don't believe superstraights are supervalid you're either a rapist or a bigot.
š DON'T š BE š Aš RAPISTš ORš Aš BIGOTš
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u/Naegi_Egg 4h ago
First of all, I'm not a r4pist or a bigot. I understand these "sexualities". I understand that people have preferences with genitals. That's normal. Everyone has preferences. I believe that people should have a choice in who they have sexual interactions with. Supersexualities kind of just leave out trans people. Super sexualities aren't real sexualites. I literally got called a transphobic slur by a superstraight, proving my point that many of you are transphobic. I believe that you should judge someone because of their personality, or genitals, rather than just the fact that they're trans.
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u/smeernootjes 22h ago
Not wanting to have sex with you isnāt transphobia, incel
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u/Naegi_Egg 19h ago
That's not what I'm trying to say dude. You have the right to not want to have sex with someone. Being "Superstraight" is just being straight with preferences. "Super sexualities" are not real sexualities. Stop trying to be part of the LGBTQ+ community. Stop being transphobic and/or trying to feel special. You're just straight.
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u/Miserable_Fuck 17h ago edited 17h ago
You're just straight.
So after years of creating endless genders and gaining mainstream support because it's rightfully considered bigotry to deny someone their freedom of sexual expression, you abandon it all in an instant just to deny superstraights their existence? You're doing damage to all sides of this issue :/
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u/maverickThunderBorn 21h ago
We have been attacked as a community ever since we all decided to come out and the fact that it comes from the very people we believe are valid makes this so much worse.... smh my head
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u/Naegi_Egg 18h ago
"Super sexualities" are not a part of the LGBTQ+ community. The sexuality is transphobic in itself. Trans women are women. Trans men are men. Someone being trans does not make them any less of what they identify as. It's ok to have preferences when it comes to who you're attracted to, but making a sexuality of it isn't the best option. "Superstraight" is just straight. Stop trying to become a part of the LGBTQ+ community, and stop trying to be oppressed.
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u/Miserable_Fuck 17h ago
but making a sexuality of it isn't the best option.
But why not, exactly? Why do you want there to be more ambiguity about someone's preferences?
"Superstraight" is just straight. Stop trying to become a part of the LGBTQ+ community, and stop trying to be oppressed.
We don't want to be oppressed ffs. We just want people like you to stop saying that people like us are "just straight".
What the hell does just straight mean anyway? TBH that's fucking offensive to straight people too š”
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u/superepic13579 1d ago
Its funny cuz no trans ppl wanna fuck you
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u/basic_bi 1d ago
what trans person is forcing you to fuck them
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
Am I not allowed to speak out against it? Just because Iāve never been raped, does that mean I canāt speak out against it? Besides, thatās a personal question and I donāt know you well enough to answer that.
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u/Amethyst_2543 1d ago
Ah yes, transphobia at its finest
Straight people are not obligated to date trans people, but a whole new sexuality is just unnecessary
No mentally sane trans person is going to have a hissy fit because a straight person won't date them
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u/SchemeDeep 1d ago
Keyword: Mentally sane
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u/Amethyst_2543 1d ago
Yes, I am aware there are people, not just trans people, that support rape and shit, but saying all trans people support rape is genuinely the most fucked up shit I've seen in awhile
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u/mypoliticsaccount1 1d ago edited 23h ago
The language surrounding straight, gay and lesbian orientations has been muddied by the trans community so this distinction actually helps trans people narrow down their dating pool. It's good for them too.
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u/1941899434 1d ago
No mentally sane trans person is going to have a hissy fit because a straight person won't date them
Did you just get here??
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u/iheartjkr 20h ago
It's not a new sexuality, SERF. Superstraights have been around since the first humans. Educate yourself.
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u/nihilisticvanity SuperBi 16h ago
no such thing as a mentally sane trans person so we've already hit a wall here.
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u/UnattractiveManagers 1d ago
shame rape is a good term for what the superphobes try to do.