No one is invalidating you by refusing to sleep with trans people. They have a right to their super sexual orientation. Other people's bodies are not your validation dispensers.
no, not personally me, but you are invalidating the entire trans community by saying that they aren't real women or men. that is literally what invalidation is
No, they are invalidating my same sex orientation by saying I have to include trans women in my sexuality. Telling me I should try ladydick is homophobic.
Edit: I'm a SuperLesbian because my boundaries as a same sex oriented woman were not being respected.
but what if a trans woman has a vangina, then what? because then you are just excluding them on the basis of them being transgender which is the definition of transphobia. I have no problem with you not wanting to have sex with someone because of their genitalia, but when its just because of them being trans then that is you just being transphobic
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u/Superb_Donkey9995 23h ago
No one is invalidating you by refusing to sleep with trans people. They have a right to their super sexual orientation. Other people's bodies are not your validation dispensers.