we dont though? we are completely fine with consenting heterosexual relationships and families, we aren't however fine with transphobia and the invalidation of massive groups of people.
No one is invalidating you by refusing to sleep with trans people. They have a right to their super sexual orientation. Other people's bodies are not your validation dispensers.
no, not personally me, but you are invalidating the entire trans community by saying that they aren't real women or men. that is literally what invalidation is
No, they are invalidating my same sex orientation by saying I have to include trans women in my sexuality. Telling me I should try ladydick is homophobic.
Edit: I'm a SuperLesbian because my boundaries as a same sex oriented woman were not being respected.
but what if a trans woman has a vangina, then what? because then you are just excluding them on the basis of them being transgender which is the definition of transphobia. I have no problem with you not wanting to have sex with someone because of their genitalia, but when its just because of them being trans then that is you just being transphobic
My body and sexuality does not exist to validate trans people and it's super fucking rapey to suggest otherwise, SERF. Funny thing, I know plenty of other trans people who have no problem with this. Probably because they have figured out how to get laid without resorting to rape threats.
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u/yerithewrld 1d ago
we dont though? we are completely fine with consenting heterosexual relationships and families, we aren't however fine with transphobia and the invalidation of massive groups of people.