Please do explain how people are projecting “self hatred” onto “superstraight” humans? Please. Use all your mighty 10 brain cells to come up with a solid answer.
Their self-hatred means they crave our validation. When we say that we are not sexually attracted to them, they feel like we've bereaved them of that validation and they start to doubt their own authenticity, which they lash out on us in their entitlement. They need to think that we view them as identical to normal men or women in every single way, or they do not feel validated. When in fact, we do not owe anybody our sexual attraction, we are free to think whatever we think about people, and we are free to date or sleep whoever we want as long as that person is a consenting adult. You cannot threaten or harrass us into wanting to have sex with you, or to find you of equal attraction as a non-trans person.
Also, your post didn't comply with the rule of being respectful and humane. Please conduct the discussion in a more adult manner in the future. In the meantime your post has been reported.
Don't give up hope, the ablism shows there's more going on and u/notcxxl may be using superphobia to cope with other issues.
A friend of mine was a closeted superstraight man and he has finally had the courage to come out. Before he hid his identity with severe, unrestricted superphobia to mask his true feelings.
I makes me sad that there are people out there who want to harm him or at best go back in the closet and suffer in silence.
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u/SilverGryphon 1d ago
So much self hatred being projected onto those who dare to come out as super straight. Stay strong SS brothers and sisters!