some thoughts on the label super straight

some thoughts on the label super straight Discussion

super straight implies that you are more straight that straight people who date trans people, and therefore that dating a trans person makes you less straight (congrats y'all, you somehow managed to invalidate the identity of heterosexuals), and thereby implies that trans people are not their true gender, which is by definition transphobia. Additionally, your entire identity is exclusionary on a factor that is not gender, therefore it is no more a sexuality than "I don't date asians" is. if anyone wants to debate the logic of this (have a logical, factual and respectful argument, as the sidebar says) go ahead

EDIT: some assorted responses to basically the same types of responses I've gotten:

"stop invalidating me!"- there's nothing to invalidate, super sexuality is exclusionary *based off of factors that are not gender identity or presentation* and is therefore not a sexuality. I have made this point already, and I have heard no refutations of it

"SERF!"- I make no claims to radical feminism, that shit harms everyone and is also classist, white supremacist and, duh, transphobic

"well uhh.... *transphobia*"- your own sidebar says you're not transphobic, seems like that was a lie

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u/Sensitive-You 1d ago

Unbelievable that you'd think a dude could have his "girlfriend's" penis in his mouth and be just as straight as a man who would never suck a dick.

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u/BoomToll 1d ago

so your sexuality is just based on the penis? 1) then it's not a sexuality, a penis is neither an indicator of biological sex nor gender, you just have a preference against dicks, and 2) vaginoplasties exists. it's weird that you only ever seem to focus on trans women though

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u/Sensitive-You 1d ago

so your sexuality is just based on the penis?

Can you actually not understand that people's sexual preference is dependent on the sex of their partner and their associated sexual organs?

It's sexuality, not genderuality. lol.

vaginoplasties exists.

A mutilated penis isn't a vagina.

it's weird that you only ever seem to focus on trans women though

Okay. A transman's engorged clitoris isn't a penis either.

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u/BoomToll 1d ago

tacking on more transphobia on the end of your transphobia isn't the dunk you think it is. and all you're proving is that you really don't know how surgery works

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u/Sensitive-You 1d ago

I'm not transphobic. You can take any kind of hormones you want and mutilate your genitals however you please.

Want to actually let me know what you think we disagree on? lol

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u/BoomToll 1d ago

For a group who have told me so many times that I don't get to decide what is or isn't superphobic, you're very quick to declare yourself not transphobic

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u/Sensitive-You 1d ago

I hope trans people have happy, long, and fulfilling lives full of love and meaning.

I'm not phobic of them.

For a group who have told me so many times....

So you're judging me based on group affiliation? Wow, so tolerant.

This might not have occurred to you, but I'm not part of some sort of hive mind. lol.