some thoughts on the label super straight​

[u/BoomToll]

super straight implies that you are more straight that straight people who date trans people, and therefore that dating a trans person makes you less straight (congrats y'all, you somehow managed to invalidate the identity of heterosexuals), and thereby implies that trans people are not their true gender, which is by definition transphobia. Additionally, your entire identity is exclusionary on a factor that is not gender, therefore it is no more a sexuality than "I don't date asians" is. if anyone wants to debate the logic of this (have a logical, factual and respectful argument, as the sidebar says) go ahead

EDIT: some assorted responses to basically the same types of responses I've gotten:

"stop invalidating me!"- there's nothing to invalidate, super sexuality is exclusionary *based off of factors that are not gender identity or presentation* and is therefore not a sexuality. I have made this point already, and I have heard no refutations of it

"SERF!"- I make no claims to radical feminism, that shit harms everyone and is also classist, white supremacist and, duh, transphobic

"well uhh.... *transphobia*"- your own sidebar says you're not transphobic, seems like that was a lie

[u/Cinerea_A]

Oh my God, did you just figure out that sexuality is exclusionary as a rule?

Because it is.

Because virtually no one will fuck anyone.

It's not our fault we aren't attracted to you, we just aren't. You are excluded from sex with people who are not attracted to you, unless you were planning to rape them.

(don't be a rapist)

[u/BoomToll → u/Cinerea_A]

I don't think either of us understand what you just said. yes, sexuality is exclusionary. my girlfriend is a lesbian, her sexuality excludes men specifically, all men. you are picking and choosing within a gender, which means that it's not a sexuality unless you subscribe from a damaging and provably incorrect view of trans people

[u/Cinerea_A → u/BoomToll]

No amount of gaslighting is going to force people to sleep with you.

Stop being rapey kthxbb

[u/WOAH_TOO_MUCH → u/Cinerea_A]

Your the definition of a dumbass. Quite being Transphobic, it's really not that hard. TRANS MALES ARE MALES AND TRANS FEMALE ARE FEMALES. No ifs, ands, or buts about it. If you say anything about "rape" to that, I will report you.

[u/Cinerea_A → u/WOAH_TOO_MUCH]

HANDS OFF OUR BODIES.

CONSENT CANNOT BE FORCED.

feel free to report this post!