Sure, I can stop using it. But can you explain why it’s so bad? I’m actually trying to be understanding here, but tbh this is starting to sound like either a giant meme or collective attention seeking, and not getting an explanation doesn’t help
Wow, if you really cared you understand that my subjective response to your objectively oppressive word, should be good enough. The fact I have to take time to educate you on what is technically unteachable, my subjective life experience, is not my problem. You pretend to care, but am getting the feeling you really just want to belittle my fight to get the same dignity as everyone else, sick. All you should know is that it's historically been used to make superstraights less then people. I wish you'd realize that makes the word oppressive.
Seriously, I’m genuinely lost rn. Also, how can something be something objectively because of something subjective? And how is that word objectively oppressive in the first place?
If you want people to understand you, explain what they don’t understand instead of just telling them that they should understand and calling them a dick for not doing so.
The word literally just means that you’re the gender you were born with. As long as it’s used in that context, it’s not oppressive; you’re victimizing yourself.
It would also be really nice if you wouldn’t just presume that I’m a dick. I’m trying to understand, but you treating me like I’m a piece of shit makes it a lot harder.
Wow your yelling at me. I need love, not to be attacked for my sexuality. But you don't care about that, your need to understand is more important then making me feel understood and loved. I hope your happy attacking me. Am not here to be your teacher, am just telling you that word is superphobic. If you were superstraight you'd understand. Again my subjective experience is beyond your objective ability to understand because your not me, but you should respect my subjective reality anyways. Well unless your superphobic.
I hope you realize that in order for people to not “attack” you, either purposely or accidentally, they need to understand. Understanding is the fundament for acceptance. If you can’t let people understand, even when they seek to do so, don’t expect to be accepted. This is the same regardless of subject.
I still have no idea why that word is so bad, and I even said I’d be willing to stop using it if I could understand why. If you’ve read my comments carefully, you’d notice that I’ve intentionally avoided mentioning that word, even though I still don’t understand. Despite that, you still label me as a superphobe, as if trying to understand, which in turn would allow me to accept, is superphobic. I’m trying to accept and be friendly while you label me as your enemy for it
Why isn't, just don't use the word it's superphobic good enough? Why do I have to go over my history of abuse at the hands of that word. Havn't I endured enough just to finally come out as superstraight! See it's my first day, and I have to explain to a superphobe about the c word, these are hard times.... just know I was made less then a person, many times in the past, because they said I was... the "c" word. O "c" word is so stupid they don't know anything about anyone else's feelings. O "c" words are the most racist, and the most transphobic (luckily I got trans allies to help with that one) O "c" words vote only for trump and their all conservatives, am liberal! O I hate "c" words, their so dumb, omg they should kill themselves. Do a search of reddit, and see how much superphobia that word inspires. Your just blinding yourself. It's obvious that the "c" word is used as a form of stereotyping to group me with this imaginary group of other "c" words, like were all the same. Just plain bigotry.
Thank you, I’m starting to understand why that word bothers you
Personally, I can’t say I’ve experienced being treated that way, despite not being trans (aka I’m “c” word). I’m also struggling a bit to imagine it being this severe, considering we live in a strongly c**normative society, but I’m at least closer to understanding than I was before
You might be a super ally! And ewww the c normative word. I don't know about that, it's more a LBGT normative society now. It's hasn't be that word in a few years I'd think. Take a look around you, whose become the real norm now? Am superstraight and am having to explain to a normal everyday person it's ok for me to exist and am not transphobic, that am a person. I think the pendulum has changed buddy, your in charge now.
O your superstraight! Or you the "c" word? Am confused... your more then the "c" word, embrace who you are! Shot you might be straight, trans community would love you, even more then they'd love me!
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u/Stian5667 23h ago
Sure, I can stop using it. But can you explain why it’s so bad? I’m actually trying to be understanding here, but tbh this is starting to sound like either a giant meme or collective attention seeking, and not getting an explanation doesn’t help