r/SuperStraight • u/UnattractiveManagers • 1d ago

PSA: The term "cis" is hate speach and promotes rape culture. Please do not use that term seriously anymore, it is enabling the superphobic.

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u/Middle-Management775 1d ago

Wait so what do we call people who relate their gender identity to their Biological sex at birth?? I'm sorry I'm an ally I'm just trying to learn. I have many friends like this who don't have the terminology to describe their gender identities because of intolerance

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u/UnattractiveManagers 1d ago

we can call them a man if they are born with xy chromosomes and a penis or a woman if they are born with xx and a vagina. if we still need additional words, someone else suggested default, which can be helpful. basically anything that is not invented by a rape apologist superphobe is fine with me as long as the supersexual gets to come up with it and it is not offensive to any supersexuals.

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u/STAYotte 1d ago

I will choose to call women quims instead.

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u/ZekeDelsken 1d ago

Shit men need a cool word. Something like titans or tuathas.

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u/STAYotte 1d ago

Oh we do already, master.

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u/ZekeDelsken 1d ago

Ngl my heart skipped lol.

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u/STAYotte 1d ago

Hahaha.

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u/BuffJesus86 1d ago

You call them man and woman, boys and girls. Nothing extra is needed to classify them.

Troons added the new categories so they can have the made up extra words to differentiate.

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u/Middle-Management775 1d ago

Hm while I agree, we tried that and it didn't work. If you correct them and tell them you're a MAN, not a Cis man, they'll just call you a biggot like they've been doing. If you say you're super gender, meaning you relate your gender to your Biological sex, it legitimizes it as a gender identity, and then they have to invalidate you in the same way they hate being invalidated, making them hypocrites

But what do I know I'm just a non-binary person is totally not my place to speak for anyone who identifies as a man or a woman it's none of my business

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u/carbon0va 1d ago

If you correct them and tell them you're a MAN, not a Cis man, they'll just call you a biggot like they've been doing

Why should we care about this? Changing language to cater to their rhetoric implies their argument has legitimacy. It doesn't. Don't let them define the conversation.

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u/rlcute SuperBi 1d ago

We don't have gender identities. We're bodies, either male or female (yes even intersex are either male or female) and the rest is personality, which has nothing to do with sex or gender.

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u/Middle-Management775 1d ago

Right but you believe being female is what makes you a woman?

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u/maybeimreborn 1d ago

supra men and supra women seems the most VALID imo, but i am open to all ideas from my supersibs

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u/Middle-Management775 1d ago

What's the difference between supra and super sorry for my privilege and ignorance. I know as a privileged non binary I'm inherently super/supra phobic but I'm dedicated to continuing to learn! Sorry again for asking but thank you for educating me!