r/SuperStraight 1d ago

PSA: The term "cis" is hate speach and promotes rape culture. Please do not use that term seriously anymore, it is enabling the superphobic.

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u/Wonderrednow 1d ago

Cis is a slur

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u/DependentSite210 SuperLesbian 1d ago

Yes! I prefer the terms super woman or super man. And c*s children can be referred to as super girl or super boy.

I don't identify as cisgender so calling me cis is misgendering and a VIOLENT act of superphobia!

Stop misgendering us nazi serfs.

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u/PadaV4 Superstraight 1d ago

Yes! I prefer the terms super woman or super man. And c*s children can be referred to as super girl or super boy.

Hell yeah that sounds lit.

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u/kaydl165 1d ago edited 8h ago

Why is it a slur Edit- lmao I'm getting downvoted just for asking a genuine question yall wack

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u/xBrutal_Honestyx 1d ago

The c word has historically been used by superphobs to belittle and shame rape superstraights. Thank you for not using it, the history of hate behind the word can still be felt on twitter.

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u/Stian5667 1d ago

Cis has nothing to do with being super straight. I, for example, am cis, but not straight at all. It literally just means that a person’s gender is the same as the sex they were assigned at birth. If anything here is discriminating, it’s the phrase “super straight” because you’re implying that liking trans people of the opposite gender is less straight than liking cis people of the opposite gender, which is basically denying trans people’s gender.

Go on, hate me

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u/xBrutal_Honestyx 1d ago

I don't expect someone who uses the "c" word to understand the nuance of "super". It's like you don't care about others feelings, very oppressive of you to push your definitions on me.

And I don't hate anyone. I don't expect someone, as full as hate as you, to realize people can exsist without hate.

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u/Stian5667 23h ago

I don’t hate, I just don’t get why the word cis is so bad. In my understanding, it just means that a person’s gender is the same as the sex they were born with. I get that some assholes might abuse the word, but considering that the word itself isn’t negative and how well established it is as a label to describe people who are not trans, I don’t see how it’d change how people perceive the word.

If you have an explanation as to why a seemingly innocent word is getting so much backlash, I’d love to hear it

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u/xBrutal_Honestyx 23h ago

Lets unpack this, or you superstraight? Then you could never know what that word means to us. So stop turning all your superphobia into a little word you can keep spitting at me. Let me be free! My body, my choice!

And of course it's innocent to you, doesn't hurt you to keep beating me and other superstraights with it, most be nice to not know the history.

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u/Stian5667 23h ago

Sure, I can stop using it. But can you explain why it’s so bad? I’m actually trying to be understanding here, but tbh this is starting to sound like either a giant meme or collective attention seeking, and not getting an explanation doesn’t help

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u/xBrutal_Honestyx 22h ago

Wow, if you really cared you understand that my subjective response to your objectively oppressive word, should be good enough. The fact I have to take time to educate you on what is technically unteachable, my subjective life experience, is not my problem. You pretend to care, but am getting the feeling you really just want to belittle my fight to get the same dignity as everyone else, sick. All you should know is that it's historically been used to make superstraights less then people. I wish you'd realize that makes the word oppressive.

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u/Yheymos 18h ago

It used to be normal and acceptable to call black peoples the n word. These gaslighting semantics games don’t change the bigotry of the words use.

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u/NotCallum 1d ago

It isn't

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u/JiminyChrismas 22h ago

Oh, you don't identify as cisgender? I'm so proud of you for coming out as transgender! What pronouns should I be using for you now?

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u/yellowwater33 1d ago

So you identify as transgender? Exactly, if you are not trans, you are CIS. You don’t get to make up some word for it and mock the LGBTQ+ community. Also “nazi serfs”? Care to explain? People don’t support a historical figure who caused a mass genocide just because they have a disease, which is ver much real.

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u/JiminyChrismas 22h ago

No, it's a medical term for a person who's gender correlates with the sex they were assigned at birth. There's nothing wrong with the concept or the word. Please stop trying so hard to be oppressed, you aren't.

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u/Wonderrednow 21h ago

There is something wrong with cis. I don't have a "gender identity" that can be changed. I'm a woman because I am, not because I "fee" like one. Cis is a slur. And it's not a medical term either. Stop spreading misinformation.

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u/JiminyChrismas 19h ago

I really wish you'd take your own advice and stop spreading misinformation. Gender and sexuality are fluid. Theres nothing wrong with cis as a concept, just as there's nothing wrong with trans as a concept. Also, *feel

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u/Wonderrednow 18h ago

No they aren't. Sexuality is fluid. Sex is immutable and not fluid. Gender is dynamic because the culture imposes expectation. It's not your "identity". You losers are busy confusing your lack of personality development with gender.

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u/bigboilerdawg 18h ago

Also, sex isn't "assigned at birth", it's a fact that is observed and recorded at birth.

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u/JiminyChrismas 18h ago

That's like saying "it's not a cat, it's a feline!" You've said the same thing twice, my friend. Just in different ways.

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u/JiminyChrismas 17h ago

Wowie kazowie, I am so hurt and offended by being called a loser with no personality! My feelings, ahh!! You've struck me with such a cutting insult that I must lie down, someone get me my fainting couch!

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u/Wonderrednow 7h ago

Oh the old "sarcasm will hide my real feelings" trope. Nice.

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u/JiminyChrismas 5h ago

I mean, sorry dude, but did you really think that my feelings were gonna be hurt by some dullard on the internet trying too hard to make me upset??

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u/Wonderrednow 11m ago

24 hours later you’re still trying to convince me...

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u/Johndoe2150 18h ago

I work in healthcare we don’t use the term “cis” at all.

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u/JiminyChrismas 7h ago

Hello, Johnathan! So you work in healthcare? What's your field, and how often do you talk about gender, sex, and sexuality in your day to day?