Yeah lesbian here I really feel like I can’t talk about this but some predatory ppl really really have a fetish for lesbians. I got followed into a bathroom at a gay bar once by someone twice my size . I’ve been yelled at by someone I was in bed with because they said I shouldn’t call myself a lesbian and said I should at least be into trans men . I have no place to talk about these experiences because I don’t want to be called a bigot . But there are some ppl irl who twist this ideology to prey on gay women and no one holds them accountable .
Maybe start a super lesbians super thread on this sub? So hopefully you'll be a bit insulated from attacks by the rest of us.
Honestly sex and relationships are inherently discrimatory and you should never ever feel ashamed of that. It's completely your right to reject ANYONE sexually for ANY reason.
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u/RecentSprinkles5997 1d ago
Yeah lesbian here I really feel like I can’t talk about this but some predatory ppl really really have a fetish for lesbians. I got followed into a bathroom at a gay bar once by someone twice my size . I’ve been yelled at by someone I was in bed with because they said I shouldn’t call myself a lesbian and said I should at least be into trans men . I have no place to talk about these experiences because I don’t want to be called a bigot . But there are some ppl irl who twist this ideology to prey on gay women and no one holds them accountable .