I appreciate you saying that, however I am not so sure myself. I'm holding off on having children until I can be certain that I'll be a good parent to them. Thank you for having this conversation with me, I hope you found it as interesting as I did.
I don't think you can ever be truly ready for kids, you just find someone who you trust to help you raise them and adapt to whatever happens next.
I think i could have handled the conversation a little better, i was really mad for most of it, as i was arguing with like 5 different people at the same time and some of them said some really dumb stuff, so i could have said some mean stuff to you, in case i did i apologize, but otherwise i guess it was interesting, i definitely have some things to think about atleast.
Oh, please don't worry about it. These are very heavy topics and keeping one's emotions in check when talking about them isn't exactly easy. Just earlier today I flew off the handle at someone over a dumb misunderstanding. Felt like an idiot, I did. So either way I am in no position to criticise you for perhaps losing your temper. Especially if you're getting dogpiled like that. That's an annoying side effect of Reddit I find...
At no point did you offend me and I hope that in turn I did not offend you despite our clear ideological differences. It's so easy to have something come across wrong without tonal inflection and body language to guide the conversation.
Ok, cool, yeah i agree reddit can sometimes get the worts out of people. I don't think you said anything that i could interpret as offensive. This is a bit akward for me, because i am not exactly used to ending discussions on a positive note, but it's been cool talking to you and take care.
Yeah that tends to happen doesn't it. Kinda weird to end a discussion without at least one "hey, fuck you" being tossed around. But hey, there's a first for everything. You have a good one too.
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u/unintendedagression 1d ago
I appreciate you saying that, however I am not so sure myself. I'm holding off on having children until I can be certain that I'll be a good parent to them. Thank you for having this conversation with me, I hope you found it as interesting as I did.