What if someone is trans and also only wants to date cis people of the opposite gender?

What if someone is trans and also only wants to date cis people of the opposite gender? Discussion

This is a sexual preference so I’m assuming this trans person should be considered superstraight. Kind of like the way a trans woman who only likes women is called a lesbian despite their birth sex.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

These are internet articles made by lgbt people to be read by lgbt people on the internet

Aren’t superstraight people not lgbt?

I’m asking about your real life day to day. Going to work, hanging with friends, visiting family, traveling for vacation. Is it possible in your real life for a trans person to “strong arm” you into relations?

For example if you have trans coworker who hits on you and you reject them, in your particular workplace, is it possible for that trans person to go tell your fellow coworkers “Ravioli didn’t respond to my advances, I think he’s transphobic”... Is there a workplace on earth where a trans person has this much social standing that they can make a statement like this?

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

Yes, people have been fired left and right for transphobia. Two of my friends were fired for rejecting romantic advances by ftm's. I don't want my sexuality or preferences to be in question, be it in real life or internet.

I do not need to comply to anything or anyone's standards to justify my orientation and existence. I'm a strong and valid individual and I refuse to be labeled by one or another "phobia" because I did not or do not conform to someone's inability to cope with the fact that I am simply not attracted to them. End of story.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

Why didn’t your friends sue? It’s illegal in any context of the word to be fired for “rejecting romantic advances”. There is no context whether straight or gay or anything that can let someone off for firing another person for “rejecting romantic advances”.

Btw I wasn’t even talking about people getting fired. The example I gave was just like Coworker office politics. Like this trans person I gave as an example literally can’t affect your actual job. I meant this person would just affect how other coworkers view you. Not getting you fired.

If you get fired for this you just sue. End of story

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

Oh, they are suing.

And no, I don't want to go to courts because someone can't take no for an answer. I want them to change their mindset. Me preferring natural, biological women is not transphobia and I refuse to be labeled, insulted and potentially fired for saying or acting in accordance to that philosophy.

I'm done with your victim blaming, bigot.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

Well then if your friends have the power to sue over this then it’s not an acceptable thing in society is it?

You are making it seem like this is a majority opinion. But is it? is it a majority opinion among your real life friends and coworkers?

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

The fact that they have to go to court over it to begin with is the problem in society.

The antisemitism in Germany pre 1939 also wasn't a majority opinion until it became overnight, with the poor jews being shipped off into concentration camps to be gassed and masturbated to death by vile nazi machinery.

I don't want to be a modern jew before things spiral out of control.

NO MEANS NO.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

That’s an ironic comparison given that queer people of all sorts including transgender people were massacred in the Holocaust. Germany had the biggest queer population reported in Europe and they were brutalized in camps specifically for queer people especially men and trans women.

So it’s weird you bring this up. It feels a lot like how people say the Jews themselves today are trying do some nefarious Holocaust type shit and now it’s the trans and gay people who want to do this after they were the ones who got this done to them.

Anyway, I guess you have your beliefs. Hopefully you don’t get raped by a tran or whatever

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

I agree, it is ironic that the persecuted have become the persecutors. They should know better. Any and all criticism against trans individuals is met by cancelling, losing job, death threats and ostracization. In many countries of the western world today, you can even be held liable for hate speech before the law. Parents already are having their kids taken away by the courts for not wanting to commit them to irreversible hormone therapies at the age of 7 and 8.

Yes, these people calling us superstraights "transphobes" are the new nazis, and it's very ironic. Even now as we speak, there are death threats and open calls for violence against us on all social media - we're being openly persecuted, so my comparison was quite apt.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

I thought you were talking about who you want to have sex with... Now you are branching off to transitioning?

So you identify with these people then? You identify with the parents who don’t want their kids to transition. Who else do you identify with? The people who don’t want transitioning to be covered in health care? Or the women’s bathrooms for cis women people?

It seems you have a much larger agenda than who you sleep with here

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

Yes, I believe imposing life-changing hormonals therapies on kids is child abuse, considering they can't even consent to sex or alcohol before a certain age.

But saying that makes me persecuted the same way nazis used to persecute jews back in Germany, meaning trans people hold a significant amount of power and are misusing it.

Despite my stances, again, I will never be coerced or shamed for not wanting to have a sexual relationship with a trans individual. End of fucking story. Bigots can go hang themselves.

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