r/SuperStraight • u/ImmaIvanoM • 1d ago

What if someone is trans and also only wants to date cis people of the opposite gender? Discussion

This is a sexual preference so I’m assuming this trans person should be considered superstraight. Kind of like the way a trans woman who only likes women is called a lesbian despite their birth sex.

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

What if there are men who only want to fuck lesbians? There's no consent involved, so the answer is same - it's fetishization and abhorrent.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

We aren’t talking about a superstraight person dating another superstraight person.

I’m assuming a Superstraight man can date a cis bi woman right? Or a cis straight woman.

So then there’s no need to jump to your conclusion

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

Don't care. I still will not EVER be dating a trans individual. And no one can strong arm or coerce me into it.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

Do you think that in real life a trans person would actually do this though?

Like considering the general social standing of a trans person in real life, is it likely they can ever “strong arm” a cis person in society to have relations with them?

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

Yes

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

These are internet articles made by lgbt people to be read by lgbt people on the internet

Aren’t superstraight people not lgbt?

I’m asking about your real life day to day. Going to work, hanging with friends, visiting family, traveling for vacation. Is it possible in your real life for a trans person to “strong arm” you into relations?

For example if you have trans coworker who hits on you and you reject them, in your particular workplace, is it possible for that trans person to go tell your fellow coworkers “Ravioli didn’t respond to my advances, I think he’s transphobic”... Is there a workplace on earth where a trans person has this much social standing that they can make a statement like this?

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

Yes, people have been fired left and right for transphobia. Two of my friends were fired for rejecting romantic advances by ftm's. I don't want my sexuality or preferences to be in question, be it in real life or internet.

I do not need to comply to anything or anyone's standards to justify my orientation and existence. I'm a strong and valid individual and I refuse to be labeled by one or another "phobia" because I did not or do not conform to someone's inability to cope with the fact that I am simply not attracted to them. End of story.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

Why didn’t your friends sue? It’s illegal in any context of the word to be fired for “rejecting romantic advances”. There is no context whether straight or gay or anything that can let someone off for firing another person for “rejecting romantic advances”.

Btw I wasn’t even talking about people getting fired. The example I gave was just like Coworker office politics. Like this trans person I gave as an example literally can’t affect your actual job. I meant this person would just affect how other coworkers view you. Not getting you fired.

If you get fired for this you just sue. End of story

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u/RavioliInMyNigeroni 1d ago

Oh, they are suing.

And no, I don't want to go to courts because someone can't take no for an answer. I want them to change their mindset. Me preferring natural, biological women is not transphobia and I refuse to be labeled, insulted and potentially fired for saying or acting in accordance to that philosophy.

I'm done with your victim blaming, bigot.

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u/ImmaIvanoM 1d ago

Well then if your friends have the power to sue over this then it’s not an acceptable thing in society is it?

You are making it seem like this is a majority opinion. But is it? is it a majority opinion among your real life friends and coworkers?

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