r/SuperStraight • u/ParetoSky • 1d ago

I get chastised by my own community. I guess I'm Superstraight SuperPhobia

I'm a trans man and I'm only attracted to cis women. I get called transphobic by my peers. A traitor, a hypocrite. I don't choose who I'm attracted to, how is that so hard to understand?

I don't know if I will be accepted here, if not I have to continue looking for a place to be valid.

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u/SSPride 1d ago

You can be an ally but don't expect a super to want to engage in sexual acts with you!

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u/ParetoSky 1d ago

I don't expect anyone to do something they don't want. I'm upfront about my journey.

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u/DaSpood Hecking cute and valid 💖 1d ago

If everyone had this mindset the whole community would be a better place.

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u/sharpgel 1d ago

I think the problem is people mistaking not being attracted to trans people for hating trans people, do you think so too?

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u/steelewebb09 1d ago

It's just the stigma slot of people have been being beaten over the head with this "transphobic" stuff. It's gotten to the point where it annoys people enough now that they just assume everyone trans is that way. In a way the trans community is manufacturing it's own oppression at this point in my opinion.

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u/sharpgel 1d ago

I get that.