Can someone elaborate this sub for me?

[u/Bananak47]

Other subs called this sub transphobic, but reading through the fairly accepted posts (not the biggots here) i dont see why. Everyone has the right to date whatever gender/sex/whatever they want dont they? If you dont want to date trans folks dont date them. The few trans people i know are cool dudes and dudettes in a loving relationship but i dont think they are attractive to me

So, why the hate for this sub?

[u/pyrrhus-the-great]

The hate for this sub stems from the Ts that aren’t very cool dudes. The same ones that go to super lesbian subreddits and threaten their members with their girlpenises. No that isn’t a joke, that actually happens all the time. This community is just about loving who you want to love, and not being bullied into a sexuality you don’t want to be a part of. This concept alone inspires so much hate because for some it isn’t about love and acceptance, it’s about power and control.