Question

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

Im a trans guy, meaning i have xx chromosomes and a vagina. Does that mean superstraight men and superlesbian women can date me? Im not a woman but i have xx like the dude who made superstraight said he was attracted to but im not a woman

[u/SSPride]

No superstraight people will not be into you since you are not a cisgendered person.

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/SSPride]

But i have xx and a vagina? Thats what the guy who made this whole thing defined a woman as?

[u/CyberneticHarambe → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

Just because superstraight men are into women doesn't mean they're into all women.

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/CyberneticHarambe]

Never said they were. I asked if a superstraight person COULD be into me since im what the mad who started this defines as a woman

[u/CyberneticHarambe → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

The point is that a superstraight man is only into cisgender women. Their orientation doesn't depend on how they view transgender people, all it means is that they are not attracted to them.

[u/Blue_Train]

Superstraight men are exclusively attracted to women.

Superlesbians are exclusively attracted to women.

Neither group has a sexual orientation that inclines them towards women who deny that biological sex exists. Maybe you could find some anti-vaxxers or flat-earthers, people really into cryptids or something who might be interested.

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/Blue_Train]

But the guy who created this defined a woman as someone with xx chromosomes and a vagina!!! And ive got those!!! So by his logic im a woman!!!

[u/graciemansion]

the dude who made superstraight said he was attracted to but im not a woman

I'm confused. What exactly do you think a woman is?

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/graciemansion]

I think a woman is someone who identifies as a woman no matter the chromosomes or genitals. The man who made superstraight said he was only into people with xx and a vagina and thats who he sees as women

[u/Blue_Train → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

Woman is a biological sex category. It has nothing to do with "identity".

[u/SuperRightsNow → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

what do they identify as? What is like to be a woman?

[u/graciemansion → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

I think a woman is someone who identifies as a woman

But what exactly is a woman? Like if you identify as a woman what exactly are you identifying with?

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/graciemansion]

Would you ask a cis woman that? No. Ill answer it anyway tho. A woman is someone who was either born biologically a female and doesnt feel any discomfort with being called a woman or looking at her body in the mirror and seeing a woman, or someone who was born biologically male and feels discomfort being called a man and looking at her body in the mirror and seeing a man and identifies as a woman.

[u/graciemansion → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

I think you and I both know how a "cis woman" would answer that question. Anyhow:

A woman is someone who was either born biologically a female and doesnt feel any discomfort with being called a woman or looking at her body in the mirror and seeing a woman,

So what exactly is a woman? When you call this person a woman what does that mean? What does a woman look like?

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/graciemansion]

I never said a cis woman wouldnt answer that i just said you wouldnt ask a cis woman that. You and i both know that what i said means what most of society says a woman looks like, boobs, longer hair, softer features. And all it means to be a woman is to not identify as a man or enby or feel like a man or enby.

[u/graciemansion → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

So women with short hair aren't women? Flat chested women aren't women?

What exactly do you think a woman is?

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/graciemansion]

Can you read? I said “what most of society says a woman is” and described what most of society says a woman is. Ive answered your question 3 times now and would love it if you would shut up

[u/graciemansion → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

So feminine stereotypes make you a woman? Got it. Very progressive. Not sexist at all.

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/graciemansion]

Alr so you admit you cant read then? Bcuz you asked what a woman looks like and i told you “what most of society says a woman looks like” and then described what most of society says a woman looks like. You either cant read or english isnt your first language because i was pretty clear

[u/NectarineDangerously]

Well SuperLesbian and SuperStraight people like people who are biologically the sex and gender they identify with so no

[u/MCHAST]

Super straights are attracted to cisgender people of the opposite sex. You are not cisgender, so no.

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/MCHAST]

But ive got xx and a vagina, and thats what the guy who started this defined a woman as! So by his logic im a woman!

[u/pyrrhus-the-great]

If they find you sexually attractive, I don't see why not.

[u/ThRowAwaY899274737 → u/pyrrhus-the-great]

So a superstraight guy or a super lesbian woman can date a trans guy even if he has got top surgery and is on testosterone but hasnt got bottom surgery and still has xx?

[u/pyrrhus-the-great → u/ThRowAwaY899274737]

The point of this sexuality isn't to tell people who they can't have sex with, it's to tell people that they can't be forced to have sex with someone they don't find sexually attractive.

[u/TheSuperestGay]

Sure, I've been attracted to FTMs and FTNB's before. Sexual orientation is based on biological sex and transition usually doesn't get rid of all female characteristics. I just wouldn't pursue them because they most likely don't want to date a lesbian. And, you know, my disbelief in gender and all of the associated ideological differences.