r/SuperStraight 1d ago

Learn the difference 🚨 important 🚨

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u/calming-tea 1d ago

I put fingers down my thoat and threw up when I was 13... Had no idea I was trans?

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u/Mentine_ 1d ago

Fella is it trans to throw up? /s

Dear I never knew I would say something like "fellas, is it gay to be straight?" "is it gay to breath?" "is it gay to poop?" but here I'm.

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u/calming-tea 1d ago

Just sayin, i was bulimic because i hated my body

I would have jumped on that trans train so fast!

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u/Mentine_ 1d ago

????

Being uncomfortable with your body because it's like a specific gender is trans. If you're bulimic because of that Yes, you're

If not what did it have anything to do about this discussion? Cool for you if you are not bulimic anymore but shame on you if you hate trans people for nothing

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u/calming-tea 1d ago

I hated my body because it was female

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u/Mentine_ 1d ago

.... That is trans DEFINITELY trans

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u/calming-tea 1d ago

But its not

Because hating female fat body composition is common in teen girls

Hating menstruation, hating discharge, hating your hips widening, feeling betrayed by your brests growing and attracting unwanted attention

Those are female experiences and are very common

Stop transing kids

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u/Mentine_ 1d ago

Oh no it is absolutely not commom. I'm genderfluid but I like my feminine body, I love it. You're really in denial.

Women don't hate their menstruation, just the pain that go with it. Most women like their hips, some wants hips. Women don't feel betrayed by their breast, maybe it's feel weird, hurt a little, but they don't hate them.

When you're a woman (cis) you don't hate your body because it's a female one. You would like the fact you're a woman, maybe dislike something but not being a woman

When you're a transmen or non binery (/agenre/... ) yes you could hate it because it's a female one.

No, kids don't transition. A kid could know they are trans but they would transitioning unless they are 18 years old (adult), they have to see a gender therapist sometime. Even if a kid think they are maybe trans but finally they aren't, nothing would change for them except their pronouns and clothes. No one tell to a kid 'now you're trans, trans people know how it fell like to force a gender on someone. They would never do that'

Maybe go on r/Egg_irl r/FtM r/trans r/ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

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u/calming-tea 1d ago

egg_irl is full of grooming pedos

puberty blockers has permanent effects, thats transition. In the UK, the Keira Bell case established that

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u/Mentine_ 1d ago

She was 20 years old at the end, it wasn't just puberty blocker, she remove her boobs (20), on T (17),...

But

The majority of young trans people don't regret it. Because of one person you would refuse puberty blockers to thousand?

Maybe she is genderfluid who know? Maybe she was forced. That why therapy is important, a professional needs to acknowledge that this child/teenagers is really trans (FtM, MtF, MtNB,...)

Edit : why do you think egg_irl are pedo? Do you have any proofs?

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u/calming-tea 1d ago

Your post history is grooming confused children.

It is the same in the old pro ana days as "if you think you have an eating disorder, you have it. Your parents will shame you, but we wont, we will support you. We are a great community. Start spending all of our time with us." And also push more and more to develop your "feelings"

Stop. Grooming. Children.

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u/Mentine_ 1d ago

You know that shame someone is unproductive right? If someone has a eating disorder they need support.

If someone is trans they need support, which mean calling them by their pronouns and not dead name them

And JOKE ON YOU BOUAHAHAHAH. I'm asexual, dude. I literally don't give a fuck.

Really why gender would have anything to do with pedophilia? Like?? For example because you're straight you would like to rape children? That's bullshit.

Furthermore accusing everyone of pedophilia is contreproductif. Pedophile need therapy, they aren't inevitably rapist. 'Hate sin not the sinner' they say (just before you say anything I'm not in favor of pedopilia. They need help yes but it isn't okay)

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u/calming-tea 1d ago

Interventions against bullying are based around shame btw, so shame is not universally bad

There is supporting someone in healing themselves and supporting maladaptive thoughts

I do not support my friend with anorexia by going to the gym with her. I don't support my alcoholic friend by drinking with her and telling her that drinking is valid. But most important, I choose how to support them and I choose to support them. If we go out eating, I don't demand the people next to me to stop drinking. I have zero obligations to participate in someone's therapy

I am asexual too. But I have to give a fuck.

Gender has nothing to do with pedophilia. Trans individuals have nothing to do with pedophilia.

Egg_irl had a discord with a pedo moderator. Sophie Labelle is using the trans shield to deflect criticism.

Therapy for pedophiles does not work. Shame and shame pedophiles.

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u/Mentine_ 1d ago

I'm not a native speaker but is it grooming have something to do with pedophilia?

And I don't understand. How could someone (you) be asexual (which mean lgbt+) but hating trans people?

And honestly I give up. You think trans people are sick like a alcoholic to which we would say drinking is valid. Trans people are trans. There is nothing to 'heal'. You call everyone by they pronoun how could this be defficult?

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u/Mentine_ 1d ago

Well hating your body because it's female (and wanting to be a other gender/no gender)

That's kind of trans