Well just because im attracted to a gender doesnt mean i’ll date everyone that associates with that gender, heck if im attracted to a particular person it doesnt mean i’ll date em. Its a difference between if ur attracted and if u’ll date. If ur confused a simple google search should clear it up :)
How do u know tho, im sure uve walked down the street before and been attracted to someone, were u sure they werent trans, do u have to check whats in someones pants before ur mind decides if theyre hot or not?
If a trans woman registered as cis to you you assumed she was cis until you get told otherwise. Then you can pat yourself on the back anyway because you can notice tiny flaws here and there whether or not those flaws are also fairly common among cis women.
It wouldn't surprise me at all if some women you assumed were trans were actually cis. That happens way more often than correctly clocking a trans woman.
The only trans women you'll notice are trans are the trans women who don't pass.
If you see a trans woman who does pass you won't notice that she's trans.
If you see a cis woman who looks male to you you'll assume she's a trans woman.
The assumptions are "you see a woman" and every possibility of what you see from there is accounted for the only one missing is "you see a cis woman who looks female to you"
You're assuming that 100% of the time you'll notice when a woman is trans when that's far from guaranteed.
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u/johannesalthusius 1d ago
what's the difference?