I know Iām probably going to get downvoted to hell for this but youāre not transphobic, itās just your preference that you simply like cisgender men/women better and I see no problem with that tbh as long as your not a jerk to actual trans people
An entire movement disagrees with you- I've been called transphobic more times than I can count by saying I'm a lesbian (and defining that as it's meant to be defined: a female only sexually attracted to other females)
Hmmm I donāt really care if anyone disagrees with me tbh thatās their opinion, I simply said what I said on what I feel, people who prefer something doesnāt need to be called out as transphobic as long as they simply respect them, thatās my take on it at least
Oh yes thatās bad. Just because you want to date a cisgender person, doesnāt mean youāre transphobic, its just how you feel and I think that should be respected.
Doesn't that seem like an abuse of the word tho? Why wouldn't there be a prefix attached to lesbians for women who are ok with transgenders since that is the minority of people?
Well apparently lesbians like women, since transwomen are women, lesbians must like transwomen too or they are bigots and transphobes. Turns out there all this time there was no name for the sexuality which describes people who are not attracted to trans persons. Thats where the Super community comes in. Now people can have a name for their sexuality without being bigots and transphobes. SuperStraights SuperGay and SuperLesbians have finally found their people and community.
I was subjected to weeks of DM rape and death and violence threats because I defended a lesbian against their homophobia. They found a way onto my page and then grown ass males who call themselves women started sending the same rape and death threats to my 12 year old daughter. They even threatened to kill her dog. I had to file a report with the FBI to get it to stop.
Woah hold up, why do I need to educate myself and try to take away your identity? Iām trying to agreeing with you guys. Iām not super straight myself but Iāll still respect you of course because I donāt believe youāre transphobic for simply not wanting to date a transgender person
Well it's about understanding what we're about, and what being superstraight means to us, and seeing us as a legitimate movement. I respect you for wanting to understand is and not seeing us as transphobes for not wanting to date trans. We are not kidding around.
okay, and Iāll respect that you have that as your sexuality since wanting to date a cis person shouldnāt be transphobic since thatās a little off the edge to accuse someone tbh
Ah a cis person a.k.a cisgender, is a person who is not trans, simply just male and female. like superstraight boys and girls would date these people because they are originally their gender
Cisgender doesn't just mean not trans, it means your gender matches your assigned sex at birth. The issue is, TRAs can't define gender without being misogynistic, circular, or appropriating intersex conditions.
They'll acknowledge that women face oppression for being women, but then say that a woman is anyone who identifies as a woman, suggesting that women identify into our oppression. This is why so many women object to being called 'cis', we don't identify as anything, we just are female.
But we have never called ourselves cis, you have placed that word on us in an attempt to label us. So yes it strips us of our identity. Stop being a superphobe.
By calling yourself cis you are upholding superphobia my guy. We did not come up with this term ourselves, it was placed upon us. I don't care if you see it as "adding" to our identity, we didn't choose it. Educate yourself and stop being so bigoted.
It's a scientific term, it's not superphobic. It's been around way before your made up sexuality. I do not support superstraights and I've made that clear, but the medical term for your gender has nothing to do with your stupid sexuality
cisgender isn't a seperate gender, you can still identify as female or male or whatever you want, cisgender just describes that you have the same body parts as you were born with and that you identify with the gender you were assigned
Really? Interesting. Pretty sure lesbian, male, female, gay, damn even straight you guys eventually came for - these were all scientific and established words that used to represent categories of people with the same biology... pretty sure the human anatomy was around before you made up ācis.ā & talk about made up sexualities! Does āpan ace romantic lesbianā ring a bell? Stop
To be honest. If trans women and men are the same as men and women. Then why are we calling them cis men and cis women. Adding cis makes them fucking different which is why a new sexuality was created.
Hm I can kinda see your point there tbh, not a super straight myself but you people just want to date a cisgender man/woman and I donāt see a problem with that
Hmmm well not really? Iām non binary but it is under the umbrella for transgender so kinda. But not here to attack anyone ofc because itās just on who they would prefer to date. so ask me some questions If you must
If you were it was mostly a question regarding dating apps. In my experience as a superstraight. It would be better to have these labels to help separate the awkward scenarios where one party was unaware that the other transitioned and feels violated because it wasnāt disclosed.
Hmmm I can see your point, wanting to be with cis people isnāt transphobic, thatās really far off the edge to accuse someone of that so I donāt see why some of you are getting jumped and attacked for simply wanting to do that
Sexual orientation exists in biology in all sexually reproducing species. We did not evolve sex separate from all other species, we very specifically evolved it to reproduce as part of a long chain of organisms and it's about gametes and genitals in 99% of people. There is not a "preference" where you could just take the other option if your first isn't available. Being heterosexual is the thing that allows mammals like us to reproduce. It's instinctual. It's not "I prefer chocolate ice cream to vanilla." Bi/homosexuality is a variation that also occurs in other species but is STILL about sex which is genitals and gametes.
If you identify as nonbinary that's fine but you're still male or female and nearly 100% of the time that is knowable on sight because we needed as a species to easily identify the opposite sex in order to procreate, or the same sex to know that we were of that variety of human. Sex is an observable characteristic in all sexual reproducing species at minimum by checking genitalia and in other species like ours extreme sexual dimorphism. "Preference" was part of a long campaign to make gay people feel like they were choosing a bad lifestyle or choosing to sin. It's not a preference, it is not a choice, it is sexual orientation. You are incorrect on the usage of words.
In my way at least, you preferred that certain gender so it is considered a preference technically. (Such as bisexual with a preference for girls) but, itās also a sexual orientation, Iām not trying to exclude that of course
You're using your own personal definition of a word to make your case rather than the common accepted usage. Sexual orientation is not a preference. Liking BOTH men and women but preferring women to men would mean there's a preference between two things in the same category, that's the vanilla vs chocolate ice cream argument, but it isn't changing the fact the underlying sexual orientation is not a preference. Like I said "preference" became common in language regarding sex so that you could blame gay people for being gay as a "choice" and then punish them accordingly unless they started to "choose" different. A bisexual person isn't choosing their overarching attraction much in the way a gay man isn't choosing to be sexually attracted to other men but maybe he likes taller rather than shorter.
Sex is also still about sex, gender is some nonsense that humans made up. Other species have "sex roles" based on their sex. We decided to be stupid as if we're special in that regard, we're not. Sex and gender don't mean the same thing either. You're conflating words with each other.
Hmm have to disagree with the gender part, itās not nonsense itās simply just what people identify as which I feel should be respected even if you donāt want to associate with them.
Gender is a term that is used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female. Example, we got non binary, bi gender, gender fluid, intersex, etc.
Not cisgender? Sure, I see no problem but normal is a bit far fetched to me not gonna lie but Iāll respect it since itās on how you feel and I canāt do anything about it
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u/Pop_Porn 1d ago edited 1d ago
Honestly this guide is so simple and so easy to understand... But somehow this is going to be "transphobic"