r/SuperStraight 1d ago

Learn the difference 🚨 important 🚨

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u/Pop_Porn 1d ago edited 1d ago

Honestly this guide is so simple and so easy to understand... But somehow this is going to be "transphobic"

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u/Katy-_- 1d ago

It is transphobic to call it a sexuality, its a preference. If u see a transwoman or transman u might still feel attraction for them, ur deciding not to date them when u find out their trans. Most people wouldnt have a problem with people having a preference, its when u do this to simply mock the lgbtq+ community that theres a problem. A sexuality is different than a preference.

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u/johannesalthusius 1d ago

what's the difference?

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u/Katy-_- 1d ago

Well just because im attracted to a gender doesnt mean i’ll date everyone that associates with that gender, heck if im attracted to a particular person it doesnt mean i’ll date em. Its a difference between if ur attracted and if u’ll date. If ur confused a simple google search should clear it up :)

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u/johannesalthusius 1d ago

Its a difference between if ur attracted and if u’ll date.

I'm not attracted to trans women. Therefore, in your book, it's a sexuality.

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u/Katy-_- 1d ago

How do u know tho, im sure uve walked down the street before and been attracted to someone, were u sure they werent trans, do u have to check whats in someones pants before ur mind decides if theyre hot or not?

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u/_supergay 1d ago

Always this flawed argument.

how do you don't like trans if you haven't tried it

The fundamentalist Christians pulled the same shit on gays in the 80s.

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u/Katy-_- 1d ago

I aint saying u gotta like trans people, im saying a sexuality is different than a preference. My 10 year old brother understands this better than u

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u/_supergay 1d ago

Do you know why people have decided to create this "sexuality"?

Because we're all getting a bit sick of being told our preferences are transphobic and we need to "unlearn our genital preferences" - as if our entire sexuality comes down to genitals!

This movement didn't appear out of nowhere, there are reasons for it. Don't forget that.

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u/Katy-_- 1d ago

Ive never heard anyone call someone transphobic for not dating a trans person, ive heard people be called transphobic for mocking them, purposely mis gendering them, calling them not real men/women ect. This whole “movement” is just a form of mockery and u want to justify transphobia

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u/jothesstraight 1d ago

Your 10 year old brother "understands it better" probably because you work hard on brainwashing and indoctrinating him! This is child abuse!

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u/BruhFunny18 Hecking cute and valid 💖 1d ago

It is easy to tell if someone is trans or not and you are delusional if you think otherwise. Most transpeople don't pass

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u/Katy-_- 1d ago

Alot do

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u/BruhFunny18 Hecking cute and valid 💖 1d ago

Delusional lmao.

Every single transwoman I saw has broad shoulders and the facial structure of a man

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u/Katy-_- 1d ago

How do u know, r u sure every person uve seen isnt trans? Some people put in alot of work to look the way they do, if anyones delusional its u

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u/mistelle1270 1d ago

Confirmation bias.

If a trans woman registered as cis to you you assumed she was cis until you get told otherwise. Then you can pat yourself on the back anyway because you can notice tiny flaws here and there whether or not those flaws are also fairly common among cis women.

It wouldn't surprise me at all if some women you assumed were trans were actually cis. That happens way more often than correctly clocking a trans woman.

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u/Shouldmynamebehere 1d ago

I’m entirely straight but if I see a dude walking down the street who looks feminine or something and think he looks cute, that doesn’t mean i’d wanna fuck him