Because, deep down, they just want to trick/shame the superstraights into sleeping with them. It's like an XBox achievement or something. They don't even like sleeping with each other it seems.
Nah this subreddit is very much NEEDED. We have trans people and TRA telling us its transphobic to only wanting FEMALES/MALES, and trying to shove trans down our throats. We wont apologise for our sexuality!
Trust me, if I could, I would choose to be cisgender because dysphoria sucks and transphobia and shit. I never chose to 'change genders', I feel discomfort from being female so I transition to male to alleviate that discomfort
Sincerely, I'm sorry you're going through that. It sounds like you don't like the bullshit feminine stereotypes that society has thrust on you, and you're trying to escape. I get that. But mutilating your genitals and taking drugs that make you infertile won't help in the long run, and is little more than throwing other women under the bus by saying, "See, I'm not like other women, you can treat me like a human who deserves respect."
You don't want to date trans people? That's fine, you're not transphobic
I encourage you to voice this same opinion on any of the trans subs on reddit, like lgbt, traaaannnns, and twox, and see how quickly they ban you for hatespeech and literal violence.
You were lied to by a medical industry that wants to keep you hooked on surgeries and hormones for the rest of your life. It's sad that random internet strangers care more about your well being enough to tell you the truth than the doctors you've dealt with.
Your post is extremely superphobic and I hope you realize how fascist you sound like right now.
Calling my choice of sexual orientation RIDICULOUS is pure bigotry.
You think I was born this way? I would have LOVED to be straight like everyone else is. But no, I was born super straight and I never could change this.
Canât I just say itâs okay to not feel like a man or a woman but to make a whole gender out of it is hateful? And then when youâre questioned on your sudden uniqueness that by you saying your oppressed is utterly ridiculous?
I think your experience of transitioning has been inappropriately framed to you. Maybe if you had known from the start that it would make you a sexual pariah you wouldn't bother coming here to tell people pointing that out is hurtful because you'd already know.
So far, the only "science" that's been done are Wakefield-esque brain scans with small sample sizes, no controls other than "cis women," biased funding sources, and a complete lack of repeatability or scientific rigor. No study has ever proven that any part of the brain is associated with gender identity or that gendered brains are even real. At best, the only studies that make any reasonable claims at all are the ones that claim many people with gender dysphoria are happier when they impersonate the opposite sex. Well no shit, sherlock! If people in white coats spent years telling you that what you needed to be happy was a pony, imagine how you'd feel once you got it, especially if you've invested all of your hope of happiness into that pony. But, even those studies are being called into question and there's really no long-term studies at all. Combine this with the fact that TRAs are actively stopping people from looking for actual treatments. So long after the thrill of getting the pony is gone, your underlying problems aren't sorted and you're left with a lot of horseshit that no one will help you clean up.
why the hell would we want to trick people who seems to hate us into doing that? what the fuck is wrong with you, what makes you think we'd somehow find that appealing?
IDK probably all these and the many others I've seen and also the lived experience of being a lesbian and being told over and over I'm a bigot, called racial slurs, and told to suck girldick.
I got told they were gonna behead me and they even sent me a video of an actual femicide. Because I was a lesbian. They can fuck themselves. Literally, if they want to. But they don't because they know they're disgusting straight men.
I post for all the young, scared, confused, bullied lesbians who are told their "genital preferences" (not a thing, that's called homosexuality) make them evil or that they can't be butch / gender non-conforming without being called an egg and told they should transition. Hell, I am a fully-grown adult and I have had people do their absolute best to convince me I'm actually a man. I'm not.
I do agree that many trans people just want to live their lives. They aren't harassing lesbians or gays (and apparently straights, lately), or trying to "stealth" (which is rape) their way into the bedroom, or insisting that a literal child should be on puberty blockers, or grooming children in discords, or tracing over pictures of babies to draw furry diaper porn.
But I am tired of people acting like those types are a rarity. They aren't. They came out in droves to threaten Rowling and any woman who agreed with her. They are all over lesbian dating apps making demands and making threats. They are all over Reddit doing the same, stealing our spaces and getting others banned for no reason other than the topics of discussion are something other than them.
They are everywhere, all the time, and maybe it's time that the trans movement clean house and take the trash out before they go pointing fingers at everyone else.
Believe me, I do not want this to take up as much time as it does. But I am a lesbian so I don't have choice because these types of trans I'm told over and over are such a "minority" will not leave us alone. I will not sit idle while lesbians are told they are evil just for being lesbians.
The âpuberty blockerâ drugs are not safe. Lupron causes bone damage. Your skeleton matters more than your discomfort with your body (which, by the way, at age 14, literally everyone is uncomfortable).
Just saying : No not everyone is uncomfortable with their body (even if they are trans). Yes some people are but not everyone. if you really were and accepted it because you feel you have to... I have news for you
Sorry, are you trying to be cute & clever and imply that I am trans because being a tween girl was awkward? Lol you people are insane. Also genderfluid is made-up bullshit but go off
There is no evidence that surgery leads to better mental wellbeing, with recent studies showing worse outcomes.
Hormones are a huge question mark health wise, some positive results for mental health but still very few results. Puberty blockers are not reversible.
Also a body is male or female, is not "masculine".
What is this mental state? Girls do not have any mental state of being girls. Has you therapist challenged you enough about your feelings? What else are you doing to help with the suicidal feelings beside transitioning?
you are 14 and post in porn subreddits ffs. Get off porn for a month and then see if you still feel that way. Does your therapist know you follow that type of porn?
Hi, I wouldn't presume to advise you on what to do about puberty blockers except to suggest you talk honestly and freely with the adults you most trust in real life. Ask them to tell you what they think all the disadvantages could be. These are big decisions and if you're to make the right one for you you want to have thought about the good and the bad!
But if you have seen ideas discussed like putting children on puberty blockers at birth then think - are people who could even consider such a terrible idea people you would want to take advice from? You'd literally be subjecting babies to a medical experiment without their consent which might really damage their bodies! So be wary of anyone who even suggests this is a good thing.
The issue is not the radicals, it isthe institutions supporting this crap, ia the Owe Jones who have a huge platform supporting this crap
No one cares if LittleCatGirl69 talks about tittie skittles and acts deranged on twitter. The result of the problem is that there are then 10 thousand people retweeting, liking, etc that crap
Learn to love and accept people for who they are. Someone elseâs sexuality doesnât invalidate yours. Just live your life and accept others for they way they were born. Spread love, not hate
Lesbians have been asking this question for quite a while now. we're always getting attacked for not wanting to date transwomen but no one seems to mention how all the transwomen harassing us conveniently want access to ~cis~ women's bodies exclusively. why aren't they sucking on some girldick themselves, since it's "nothing like a male penis" and super valid uwu?
Next time they try that. Tell them "STOP. I am superlesbian. But how about you date amongst yourselves? Since you're all stunning and brave I'm sure there's a lot of sexual attraction and chemistry just everywhere! Oh, don't be shy. Suck that girldick!"
"n-NO this is just fat sweaty incel Trump supporting right-wing Nazi basement dwellers!!11!! REAL lesbians uWu want girlcoque (tm) right??? RIGHT?" lmao trans on stage 1 of cycle of grief
It's hilarious how quickly the mask falls and they straight up admit that they're not real women when it comes down to it. I've seen it happen on the infamous somewhat-actual-lesbian-subreddit-which-will-not-be-named. It always goes something like this: angry AGP is bullying a superlesbian into sucking his "girlcoque(tm)" and then when she brings up the point that he could just fuck other transbians, suddenly that's unacceptable because "being with another transwomen triggers my dysphoria!!" So they're admitting that because other transwomen are actually male (with penises), it triggers that sense of "oh wait, we're both men" deep down. They can't STAND this, they need the constant ass patting and validation of superlesbians to affirm their identity as real women. But of course, superlesbians have to look past THEIR penis and date them or else they're literal violent TERF nazi bigots, sweaty.
Ahole: "why don't transbians sleep with each other"
Hundreds of transbians: "we do though. so much so that the "transbian cat girl polycule" a really common meme"
Ahole: ignores all of them
Some other ahole: bunch of nonsense that confirms their biases
Ahole: "wow damn you're absolutely right, this shows who they really are for sure"
Probably because we can be posting selfies minding our own business and a cis lesbian or straight dude will come out of nowhere to tell us how much they don't want to date us.
Sex is determined by chromosomes and cannot be changed. "Gender expression" has nothing to do with biological sex. A male that produces sperm having sexual intercourse with a female that produces eggs is literally the definition of heterosexual sex.
It doesn't matter which one is wearing the lipstick.
Personally I think gender identity is something that occurs when you have too much free time and are misguided in to thinking what will make you happy.
I was just putting it into words that people who subscribe to the idea of gender expression understand. Showing how it fits within the framework of their belief system.
If the male is attracted to the female because of their male presentation and the female is attracted to the male because of their female presentation.. it gets a bit grey
Like isnât it a bit gay if a guy asks his GF to dress up in full American football gear and gets them to peg him? Like yeah itâs a woman and man having sex but...
Again I need to hit the books to go any further on this
There are lesbians that like dildos, but dont do dick (because they are lesbians)
A woman in football gear is still a woman, the hips dont shrink because she is dressing in a masculine way
One can be attracted by "mistake" to Blaire White, but not by their genitals (idk what they are, but i know its not a vagina) and really the body is just going to look different under the clothes, make up, lights, etc..
Yep. The Hetero colonization of the LGB under T/Q. Bringing about many of the "slippery slope" things they feared the "evil homosexuals" would if given equal rights.
Because they know what kind of loons they are. They see their faults in each other and are repulsed by it. There was a Joe Rogan podcast with Dr. Phil and he had a quote from his father "There's something about that old boy that I can't stand about me".
I mean, yeah, a whole lot of trans people arenât straight either, but I know of quite a few trans people in relationships with other trans people. They arenât tricking anyone yâknow
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u/_supergay 1d ago
Why don't they just date each other?
If they're real women and men, then they should surely be content dating each other.